AnnaC said:Mar is a women and I'm not sure she meant it in bad way to put you down.
But it brings up a very good question. Is that how women feel when they see poor people in a struggle and being the caring nutaring creatures that we are we be become blind of the fact that someone is only trying to use us?
Can they tell the easy targets by ones compassion for others?
I believe that we women are caring and nurturing and ?generally want to help people - the poor, struggling, or just someone we feel needs it. We donate money to charities here, sponsor children in third world countries, donate clothes to Good Will etc.. because we can. I think because the money they make for the long hours they put in (animation teams), and the tough jobs other Dominicans do (labout) for literally $1.00 a day is heartbreaking. We make more in a day here than most make in a month.
BUT .. I have to say that I don?t think that I would fall for the line about the sick mother, family member, water buffalo etc?
I think they can tell if you're an easy target or not, by how you treat the people around you. If you seem like a wild party girl, they think you want to party and have sex, and that's what they'll give you. If you come across angelic, they'll prey on your good nature.
Just my opinion.:glasses: