Hello everyone!
I wanted to introduce myself and ask a question. I have been reading DR1 for a short while, and was directed here by my daughter, who has lived in the DR off and on for a couple of years.
My daughter married a Dominican several years ago. We know our SIL quite well, and adore our grandchildren. My husband and I are going to visit the DR for the first time. Can anyone give me advice on gifts to bring? There are the parents, some adult sisters, some small children besides my grandchildren (all under 3 years old), and my son-in-law. I know they are roasting a pig for our arrival, which I understand is a great honor. I also know they have looked forward to us visiting, and asked us to visit from day 1.
They have arranged for us to stay in a nearby hotel, which we will pay for. We will be spending the days with them, and they will provide all of our meals. We expect to contribute some money for food, but we don't have a clue about that, either. How much is appropriate for 2 adults for a 2 week visit?
I know the father is well respected in the community, and they are a family of some prominence. I expect we will be expected to socialize somewhat, but neither of us speak Spanish. I know my daughter will help me out with that aspect, and I'm sure my son-in-law will help my husband when appropriate. My husband is not well. He may not be up to attending evening gatherings, and needs a lot of sleep. His main reason for the visit is to see his grandchildren. I realize I will be expected to go a bit beyond hanging around the house with the kids, so I would like some direction on what I can expect, and what is expected of me. If there is already a thread about this?
Thank you in advance.
Meadow in Atlanta:classic:
I wanted to introduce myself and ask a question. I have been reading DR1 for a short while, and was directed here by my daughter, who has lived in the DR off and on for a couple of years.
My daughter married a Dominican several years ago. We know our SIL quite well, and adore our grandchildren. My husband and I are going to visit the DR for the first time. Can anyone give me advice on gifts to bring? There are the parents, some adult sisters, some small children besides my grandchildren (all under 3 years old), and my son-in-law. I know they are roasting a pig for our arrival, which I understand is a great honor. I also know they have looked forward to us visiting, and asked us to visit from day 1.
They have arranged for us to stay in a nearby hotel, which we will pay for. We will be spending the days with them, and they will provide all of our meals. We expect to contribute some money for food, but we don't have a clue about that, either. How much is appropriate for 2 adults for a 2 week visit?
I know the father is well respected in the community, and they are a family of some prominence. I expect we will be expected to socialize somewhat, but neither of us speak Spanish. I know my daughter will help me out with that aspect, and I'm sure my son-in-law will help my husband when appropriate. My husband is not well. He may not be up to attending evening gatherings, and needs a lot of sleep. His main reason for the visit is to see his grandchildren. I realize I will be expected to go a bit beyond hanging around the house with the kids, so I would like some direction on what I can expect, and what is expected of me. If there is already a thread about this?
Thank you in advance.
Meadow in Atlanta:classic: