To be honest a woman when she is preparing to get married begins to adopt the "i'm a princess syndrome" or 'this day is all about me and everyone will be staring at me because i'm so beautiful' (warning don't invite any Dominican women, because you won't be the most beautiful there, but i digress! Further you should know your husband will be checking out the hot dominican waitresses whilst he's sitting next to you) Just to bring you down to earth, the world doesn't care about your wedding day... only you, your family and your fiancee do. So please i really think that this is about your belief that somehow "your day" is more special than anyones elses. maybe the other wedding party slipped her an extra $100 tough luck to you.
I should stress it is 'pitiful' to you.... it is only your opinion. Everyone has one of those. Women you are all the same, you totally think the world should stop for you on this the most special of special days when in fact marriage along with your inflated level of self-importance means nothing to anyone.