The fight for civil rights: Homosexuality and the Dominican Republic
Though homosexuality is, to a certain degree, equated with femininity this is
not set in stone. There are homosexuals who, because of the ‘persecution’ they
face, blend in perfectly into the mold of the ‘typical’ Dominican male,
therefore making it impossible to tell them apart. They dress, act, speak, and
for all intensive purposes look like “normal” Dominican males. They live their
lives on the “down low,” at times even delving into married life as a way of
concealing their alternative lifestyles.
Regardless of the changing sentiments around Latin America it is still a social
taboo to be homosexual, or to even have friends who are involved in perceived
homosexual activities. The latter act can bring the unwanted perception that an
individual is gay, and this could be extremely damaging. The perception of
homosexuality breaks down the image of the strong “caudillo” male that most
Dominican males strive for. Even the description of a homosexual in daily
communication implies a certain discomfort with the idea. Homosexuals are often
referred to as “un gay,” a somewhat pejorative term that almost gives gays a
child like designation, as to imply not only are they not men, but they are
almost like children. In essence the term affirms that they (homosexuals) can’t
harm “our ways.” Other terms like ‘maricon,’ ‘pajaro,’ ‘mujercita,’ or
‘amanerado,’ amongst others, display a certain disdain for homosexual culture,
and equate gays with women. This too highlights a problematic situation, as
homosexuality, femininity, or submissive behaviors are then intrinsically
connected through vocabulary that denotes negativity and second class status.
The array of words separates homosexuals as ultimately different, and encloses
them in distinctive social categories that separate them from society at large.
In some extreme instances a child who is openly gay can run the risk of being
ostracized from the family for the supposed shame that homosexuality brings.
Coming out of the closet isn’t common in Dominican culture, and many choose to
keep their alternative lifestyles a secret, rather than exposing themselves to
the discrimination of coming out. Salsa singer Willie Colon captured this in his
classic hit, “El Gran Varon,” in which he tells the story of ‘Simon’ who is
disowned by his father, Don Andres, after he finds out Simon is a transvestite.
This song resonates because not even the love of a father for his son could
allow him to understand why the young man would do that to him. To be
homosexual, in some ways, reflects a betrayal of a father and the family, and
the act is viewed as one of disloyalty. Though texts discussing this issue in
the Dominican context are hard to find, similar examples can be found in other
Latin American countries that yield a perspective with which to understand the
perceptions on the island. In Colombia, “male youths routinely use the epithets
maricas (queers) when referring to other youths who have demonstrated a lack of
lealtad (loyalty). To betray the group constitutes the worst crime and a youth
who was accused of being a traitor was labeled a ‘marica,’ not for his sexual
practices but because of his disloyalty”. In Latin America to be gay is then
connected to most negative of social acts, and this places a further value on
the fact that being homosexual is bad; something a man doesn’t do. And in places
as far away as Mexico we see how the negativity of homosexuality is attached to
“incurable social ills,” through popular vernacular.
Though the many tourist resorts scattered across the island, and the emergence
of the Club/Dance scene, have provided a venue for same sex couples to enjoy
themselves publicly, homosexuality is a sensitive subject that is rarely spoken
about. Whether it is fear, confusion, or misinformation, views towards
homosexuality are slowly changing, but it will take time and education to change
those very strong views. There are signs of change though. Public debate on the
topic has grown exponentially in recent years, and though this shouldn’t imply a
reversal of previously held opinions, it is the mere fact that the conversation
is taking place, along side other public discussions, that shows that there is
change to come. The open conversation provides a window of opportunity for the
GLBT (Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender) community to express their
opinions in support of their cause, which is all they can ask for. Considering
that only 15 years ago the thought of this conversation was almost non existent,
to have the topic reach public forums is a step forward.
Homosexuality is not illegal in the Dominican Republic, and terms referring to
the disintegration of the moral good have been removed from legal documents, but
protection for those in the GLBT community is still basically non-existent. The
lack of rights and legal protection can lead one to believe that they are a
separate, but not equal part of society. Requests for permission to march and
assemble as a group have been denied, and the public outcry over homosexuality,
and its believed corruption and endangerment of the youth, is still a hot button
issue. Although there are no accurate figures for the percentage of the
population who classifies itself as gay, or other, it will ultimately be the
emergence of a voice from the GLBT community that can give the conversation
validity and remove it from its place as a cultural taboo. This precedent will
only help guarantee the protection of all marginalized groups, as it sets the
legal example of guaranteeing the equality of civil rights to all Dominicans,
regardless of race, class, or any other social identifier, as promised by the
constitution. Though not an easy task, the importance of providing a structure,
and a voice, that recognizes and protects the rights of those leading an
alternative lifestyle is a societal necessity that can easiest be achieved by
making the topic accessible and not one feared. Creating the atmosphere where
the discussion can take place without the fear of being ostracized, negative
societal inferences, or negative repercussions is the step from removing the
topic from a culturally unmentionable taboo.