Really? That sucks.. I wonder if the father can arrange a trust in case of death. Marriage for your kids.. that's total BS. I recall there was a case like that in Guam about some tycoon that fathered a child when he was on vacation in the Philipines then died in a plane crash. The kid ended up with a fortune after they did DNA, but I guess not US citizenship.
if a child has a US parent who earns Social Security .. and dies.. the child is entitled to a portion of the benefits.. as is the widow,, http://www.ssa.gov/pubs/EN-05-10085.pdf the surviving family can collect up to 180% of the benefits of the deceased.
folks do not really think that SS is worth that much.. but in today's market, to get a benefit of $1k a month, a portfolio of around $250k would be needed.
I think that this factoid is probably known among some of the younger Dominicanas.. that they can get the Social Security benefits when the old pasty faced Gringo padre dies... it makes them .. well.. oh.. so much more attractive...