My 19 year old niece met a photographer in 2006' our first visit to DR, they hung out once in a while (she was 17 at the time) they kept in contact here and there, we went back again this past Christmas, once again they connected, she didn't spend much time with him, he worked a lot, he would meet up with us on occasion.
Nobody thought anything of it, and just this past week, she signed over her BMW to the parents, collected her last pay, and bought a ticket to DR. She leaves Monday morning..My daughter as of right now -will not speak to her, not because she is jealous or upset that she can't go with her, but because she thinks she is making a huge mistake, she is going down with limited funds, I mean maybe $1000 Ca. Her family will support her I'm sure once that is gone.
Is it better for her to get this out of her system, instead of wondering "what if" her whole life? At this time she doesn't have any responsibilities, no mortgages, no commitments, no children.NOTHING to hold her back, and her mind is so young that she can't comprehend that life is not easy, and you have to work at everything to make it successful.
I would love to pick up and just leave, start over, I often ask myself.." Am I the one going through life as spectator instead of being a player in the game?"
I suspect she will be in POP, as his family is from there!! and that's about all we know about him! I have given her all the information i could, everything i have learnt from this site, and have told told her there are some very supportive players and role models on this forum that will be able to help her if she has any questions or needs some help...
I'm feeling a little guilty and bummed out right now.. about all of this, Her parents may think I let the girls run wild and live it up in the DR, it was nothing like that, I was with them almost- 24/7..I'll keep you updated if anyones interested:bored:
Nobody thought anything of it, and just this past week, she signed over her BMW to the parents, collected her last pay, and bought a ticket to DR. She leaves Monday morning..My daughter as of right now -will not speak to her, not because she is jealous or upset that she can't go with her, but because she thinks she is making a huge mistake, she is going down with limited funds, I mean maybe $1000 Ca. Her family will support her I'm sure once that is gone.
Is it better for her to get this out of her system, instead of wondering "what if" her whole life? At this time she doesn't have any responsibilities, no mortgages, no commitments, no children.NOTHING to hold her back, and her mind is so young that she can't comprehend that life is not easy, and you have to work at everything to make it successful.
I would love to pick up and just leave, start over, I often ask myself.." Am I the one going through life as spectator instead of being a player in the game?"
I suspect she will be in POP, as his family is from there!! and that's about all we know about him! I have given her all the information i could, everything i have learnt from this site, and have told told her there are some very supportive players and role models on this forum that will be able to help her if she has any questions or needs some help...
I'm feeling a little guilty and bummed out right now.. about all of this, Her parents may think I let the girls run wild and live it up in the DR, it was nothing like that, I was with them almost- 24/7..I'll keep you updated if anyones interested:bored: