I am so sorry to hear about your experience!!! I was in DR about a month and a half ago. Had a wonderful time in Samana. I had great food, went swimming, got tan, made friends etc. 2 days before I left I went dancing w/ some dominican friends at a local disco and I met really cute guy that didn't come on to me at all. In fact he asked my friend to dance-not me. I danced w/ a bunch of other people too and then we found ourselves on the dancefloor after we had both finished dancing w/ other people. long story short-he asked me to dance and we had a blast. he thought I was with one of the guys that I came with, so he didn't push it but said he wanted to see me the next day. When we were all leaving, he saw me say goodby to the guy he thought I was with. We then exchaged numbers in my car.
Anyway we had a really great next 2 days. I went home and he calls me almost every other day. When his phone card runs out I call him back for a while.Of cours ther is the te quiero mucho, te amo, quiero ver te. I like him. I was going to go back in a couple months.
My mom is over there now on vacation, and she has met his family and he has taker her out almost everyday to do things. My mom likes his family, but thinks he is immature- he's 35 years old. She says he is late a lot--I explained that is dominican style sometimes.
Then she told me that when they left Samana and went to las terrenas that when they were on the 4x4 he was wavig to girls. I think this is a little odd considering he was with my mom!!Maybe that is dominican way too. I speak spanish pretty well, but his english is very limited.
He is a bus driver at a hotel and a bell hop/handles luggage. He has 3 kids all from the same mon --who he is not married to. She works in the capital and come every 1-3 months to see kids--she sends money too his mom to help. Is it all sounding worse and worse. He says they are not together.Who knows?
We talk about the future, and he wants tobe together. I tell him we need time to get to know eachother. He mentioned getting married in a year. I said whoa! He's very hot and sweet, but I need to know him better. As an american woman I know that I have a lot to offer and that I'm cute, but I also know that because of this--a "use job" cold be in the making.
I have a home in the u.s and I work hard as a realtor and do for myself. I can't, and don't want to be supporting someone for years. I know that he is a hard worker, but I have doubts about him making it here right away--Maybe I'm wrong.
I really do like him, but I also do not know him very well. I'm a little older than him, but I look pretty young for my age-not that young though. I think of the future,and need to assess what is really right for me .
I really fell in love with the DR, and I want to make sure that my feelings for him aren't just the intoxification of the warm sand and coconut water elixor.
Anyway we had a really great next 2 days. I went home and he calls me almost every other day. When his phone card runs out I call him back for a while.Of cours ther is the te quiero mucho, te amo, quiero ver te. I like him. I was going to go back in a couple months.
My mom is over there now on vacation, and she has met his family and he has taker her out almost everyday to do things. My mom likes his family, but thinks he is immature- he's 35 years old. She says he is late a lot--I explained that is dominican style sometimes.
Then she told me that when they left Samana and went to las terrenas that when they were on the 4x4 he was wavig to girls. I think this is a little odd considering he was with my mom!!Maybe that is dominican way too. I speak spanish pretty well, but his english is very limited.
He is a bus driver at a hotel and a bell hop/handles luggage. He has 3 kids all from the same mon --who he is not married to. She works in the capital and come every 1-3 months to see kids--she sends money too his mom to help. Is it all sounding worse and worse. He says they are not together.Who knows?
We talk about the future, and he wants tobe together. I tell him we need time to get to know eachother. He mentioned getting married in a year. I said whoa! He's very hot and sweet, but I need to know him better. As an american woman I know that I have a lot to offer and that I'm cute, but I also know that because of this--a "use job" cold be in the making.
I have a home in the u.s and I work hard as a realtor and do for myself. I can't, and don't want to be supporting someone for years. I know that he is a hard worker, but I have doubts about him making it here right away--Maybe I'm wrong.
I really do like him, but I also do not know him very well. I'm a little older than him, but I look pretty young for my age-not that young though. I think of the future,and need to assess what is really right for me .
I really fell in love with the DR, and I want to make sure that my feelings for him aren't just the intoxification of the warm sand and coconut water elixor.