OK so my wife has been teaching piano to an 8 year old girl for at least a month, at least half of which she would get paid in Canada. She likes doing it so that is not the issue.
Every time she goes the Dominican Dad say something along the lines of that he likes what she is wearing and always has a boner.
Today he told her it was her fault he had the boner b.c of what she wearing.
My wife has MAJOR PTSD from major abuse that i don't really want to get into. I really wouldn't care if she didn't have PTSD, since he was paying her more and more. His wife is russian with fake boobs etc..
My question is since i don't know the culture and I am pretty sure since his daughter doesn't know what he does for a living he does something shady since he was deported from the US and certain things to lead us to believe this... how do I handle this.
I am F%CKING LIVID!
But do you think me going there and calmly saying my wife will no longer be teaching your child because of your behavior will go over well?? Should I ask to talk to the wife? Or do I bring my 6.6 foot Barrio guard with me?
I will not have my wife go through this ****, the sad part is the daughter was beginning to learn and excited about it. I of course would not say anything in the area if the daughter.
Please help!
Every time she goes the Dominican Dad say something along the lines of that he likes what she is wearing and always has a boner.
Today he told her it was her fault he had the boner b.c of what she wearing.
My wife has MAJOR PTSD from major abuse that i don't really want to get into. I really wouldn't care if she didn't have PTSD, since he was paying her more and more. His wife is russian with fake boobs etc..
My question is since i don't know the culture and I am pretty sure since his daughter doesn't know what he does for a living he does something shady since he was deported from the US and certain things to lead us to believe this... how do I handle this.
I am F%CKING LIVID!
But do you think me going there and calmly saying my wife will no longer be teaching your child because of your behavior will go over well?? Should I ask to talk to the wife? Or do I bring my 6.6 foot Barrio guard with me?
I will not have my wife go through this ****, the sad part is the daughter was beginning to learn and excited about it. I of course would not say anything in the area if the daughter.
Please help!