There is no such thing as "free fuk" you fool. Yes, they are banging you for your money, or because you're perceived as being a rich foreigner. Gawd......are you that naive? Do you honestly think these Dominican women don't have an agenda? Any man who believes in a "free fuk" is asking for trouble, it would be better to just pay her and make sure the bases are covered. Have you ever read the 48 Laws of power? Nope, never mind, I can tell you haven't because you're already breaking Law 40, which says to despise the free lunch. These Dominican women aren't giving it to you for free, no woman does. There are some strings attached, and you will find out what they are if you don't already know.
Yes, women with children are damaged goods. Do you know how much food costs here in the DR? Do you honestly want to feed and care for a kid that you didn't even make? Come on man, that is stupid. I had step dads to growing up, and trust me, they don't really care about you, at least mine didn't care about me. Men who choose to become step fathers usually settle with a woman with kids because they can't get one without them. You expat men who get with these single mothers are just impatient, but that is your business.