DV8, you are wasting you time here. Most of these expats who are beating this horse to death don't really live here or have little time living here or just live in expat communities. Its quite clear they have no idea of how the poverty culture works here. It's only a wishful thinking on their part: how DR should be but it has nothing to do with how DR is (in reality). All we are seeing is how much these folks know about world events from africa to cuba to famous dictators in the world, but I wonder, how much it has to do with the reality in DR? Nice google searched knowledge but sorry, all this is not worth beans to the dominicans.
We are the people who live here and interact with poor dominicans on daily basis for years. We know how these people act, think and breed. You folks have no idea. Its best you listen to us now than later because no matter how you folks will try to paint it, the reality will not change over time. The poor dominicans care less for your ideals, they will continue to live the same way.
This thread has become from comical to boring to simply pathetic. You folks need a better hobby than to bore us with the useless googled knowledge. Its simply borrrring!!! No wonder so many fo you have no real girlfriends or boyfriends. Is this how you converse with dominicans? God help you.
Now let the poor be poor in peace.
AZB
Here is what I understand, and I am open to influence.
syc?o?phant (sĭk'ə-fənt, sī'kə-)
n. A servile self-seeker who attempts to win favor by flattering influential people.
?noun
a self-seeking, servile flatterer;
fawning parasite.
Synonyms:
parasite,
leech, barnacle, bloodsucker, bum*, freeloader, scrounger, sponge,
A leech is a carnivorous or bloodsucking aquatic worm typically having a sucker at each end - or
a follower who hangs around a host in hope of gain
Take it how you want to, it is erroneous to assume that one only acquires information by Google. It is as though you were the only person in this country who went to a university. Or only your university education counts? I know you want to believe that because it helps your megalomania but lets be clear here and give you an accurate description of who you sound like:
You sound like the guy in high school who extols the virtues of the "cool kids" as long as they let you ride in their Camaro. The guy who can rationalize all of their homo-erotic aggressive behavior as long as you get a Varsity jacket out of the deal. Makes me think there is more going on in the back of that luxury jeepeta than you want to admit.
I agree some of these poor people get on your nerves. But we dont live in a vacuum, where there is ONLY ONE ITEM which explains it. So it could only be a statement made from
pure ignorance to blame people who cant get a piece of the pie for why they cant get a piece of the pie. I know what goes on in those inbred get togethers you go on. I d assume a buffet of gluttons by those who have stolen the pie. You spend alot time working that Marie Antoniette routine. To each his own but you make it sound like your experience is the only one that counts.
"I m a winner here and you guys are losers" Dfk outta here man. "I get rich big tittied honies while you guys get barrio babes with stretch marks and stab wounds, whose teeth are so craggedy you could sharpen knives" Come on man, no sale. How is it that
you have the best of everything and everyone else is sitting on the dock of the bay?
I think you may be the problem with the Dominican Republic. You and your self-serving peers are the ones that the international aid groups come and talk to. You make it a sin to be factual and altruistic. People can draw their own conclusions. Lets examine it: a dude who never has anything good to say about the people here but has been here for 10 years? If it pains you so much why do you stay? If you eat salty meat in a restaurant every day for 10 years when there is/are better provisions right down the street. Why do you stay?
Some poor people waste opportunities trying to look rich instead of trying to be self-sufficient. Not a exceptionally dominican thing. But what did you say? "Oh the old man got drunk while his son was working hard. See, he could NOT wait to screw up." Your point should have been that in spite of having a unprofessional dad this young man was put together well. And if I ever have a party where the menu consists of more than mouthwash and napkins I ll hire him as wait staff. I think this way. You kill two birds with one stone this way. He could network among your wealthy freeloaders and build his business, sans papa, in the hospitality services. But I didnt hear that. So tell me what you know, like I wanna hear it.