Hey, dont shout at me for this.. but it is good advice.. a problem shared and all that
We may think that the guy we love is the only one that is worth it for us. But I must say that having a broken heart is just a part of life, one that must be endured and overcome. However, it is pointless to stay that way. "Love" does not mean holding on to feelings and being "devoted" to someone you couldn't have anyway; it is wanting what's best for the other person, even if it means that you don't get what you want. That's not to say that the pain shouldn't exist, or that it will fade away just like that, but true love desires the happiness of the one you love. I must admit that I am still recovering,but I dont hate him. All I want is for his best - Now, if I had realized this beforehand, I could have saved that piece of my heart for someone else--someone who will share a life with me in a union so beautiful that I will cry tears of joy at the thought of it, as opposed to the tears of pain that have lead me to where I sit right now.
**princess
We may think that the guy we love is the only one that is worth it for us. But I must say that having a broken heart is just a part of life, one that must be endured and overcome. However, it is pointless to stay that way. "Love" does not mean holding on to feelings and being "devoted" to someone you couldn't have anyway; it is wanting what's best for the other person, even if it means that you don't get what you want. That's not to say that the pain shouldn't exist, or that it will fade away just like that, but true love desires the happiness of the one you love. I must admit that I am still recovering,but I dont hate him. All I want is for his best - Now, if I had realized this beforehand, I could have saved that piece of my heart for someone else--someone who will share a life with me in a union so beautiful that I will cry tears of joy at the thought of it, as opposed to the tears of pain that have lead me to where I sit right now.
**princess