Can I share an observation? I have noticed that some Afro-Americans visiting here and for whom their 'blackness' is their primary identity (born of the long struggles for justice in the US) are somewhat bewildered by the fact that Dominicans do not identify in the same way. I have also noticed that they think this denotes some maladaptive conditioning of Dominicans which needs corrective action! As a white person myself, I think such attempts at 'corrective action' would be as doomed as me doing the colonialist stuff i.e. 'I'm white, I know best'.
I have two questions: 1) is there any significance to this debate of the fact that the DR became independent of Haitian rule before it gained independence from Spain? and 2) how significant in this debate are works like La Realidad Dominicana by Balaguer, which effectively rewrote the history of Haitian-Dominican relations and does it still have an impact today?
Firstly I dont think AAs are bewildered by the fact that some Dominicans "do not identify in the exact same way as they do", but the REASON/mindset behind it!
As Uruguay stated that girl CANNOT be pretty because "she is black" PERIOD! It is her blackness that makes her inferior.
There is an obvious negative association with blackness/African and ..THAT IS THE PROBELM AAs and others have with it!!!
When I was talking to a Dominican guy, who obviously had African blood...his response to me was 'I am no ugly black African monkey'. I thought I was talking to a member of the KKK lol
As another white female expat stated recently...when she met her Dominican friends young daughter for the first time and told her, that her daughter was beautiful, the mothers response, infront of her child was "oh but she turned out too black". As if that was a negative. How would that make any child feel? What does that tell/teach a child about themselves and the world around them? Black= Bad.
The expat was rightfully shocked by the mothers response and praised the daughters beautiful complexion saying she wished she had skin like that.
I make no apologies when I say I think that this mothers response (and ANYONE who thinks/speaks like her Dominican or not) denotes some maladaptive conditioning, which needs corrective action!
This is NOT an issue of ethnocentric or cultural biased feelings of superiority.
I think sometimes people use 'culture' as a way to veil and excuse destructive and hurtful behaviour.
A Dominican man posted on this board that he does not allow anyone in his home to use terms such as bad/good hair, etc. He is concious of the negatives of such behaviour.
And as I previously stated this is NOT exclusive to the DR. This is not the first time I have experienced or heard these things. Unfortunately it is too common all over the world, were there was no history of Haitian occupation or illegal immigration. So this is not exclusively a Haitian issue, as some would like to make it out to be.
Lambada the 2 questions you asked are of course pieces of the puzzle of this issue. Haitian occupation just added to an already existing underlying issue...
A fear and loathing of anything black/African/primitive culture. That is the root of the problem, everything else just grows from that core problem.
But would Hitler have been able to do what he did in Germany if the majority of Germans didnt already have an extreme dislike for the Jewish people? The seed was already there, just waiting to be watered. Hitler was not the real issue, the real issue was that a group of people had hatred in their heart for others based on race, etc. and felt superior.
Also it is not just African-Americans visiting the DR who feel this way, as is evident in this thread, other threads and the article Bientot linked. There are Dominicans, white Europeans, Canadians, Americans etc. who have expressed similar opinions about this topic.