Dating Dominicana

[MariaRubia]

There is no shortage of women on this island who hold the belief that extranjeros are only looking for sex and avoid them like the plague.

Yes that's true. And if you call a guy a sanky panky or a chapiador as a joke he will get extremely offended in my experience.

 

[jd426]

There is no shortage of women on this island who hold the belief that extranjeros are only looking for sex and avoid them like the plague.

I think you and I both know that depends on how you are dressed and carry yourself.
Back like 20 plus years ago, dressed in slacks and a really nice shirt, and looking more like a Businessman, (than some Dude in Shorts and a Flower shirt, on vacation.)
I dare say I was approached ( eyeballed with a smile, that's enough of a hint) by many women. of all ages in Santo Domingo, even their Mothers who wanted to make a Match. Those were the days
Had I learned Spanish, at a young Age, I dare say I could have been a King in my own mind down here in the DR .

I think the Internet changed everything ... Decent Women with some education can certainly afford to be a LOT more picky now, as they should be .
No need to chase a NYC Transit worker, when they can got to Feyboo, and chat up a Lawyer with a Summer House and 2 cars, who is actually serious about finding a nice woman to settle with.

 

[malko]

Well now you have at least acknowledged that you are a sexist male chauvanist, I have some respect for you too.

I've also had flings with cute young guys, and trust me when you are blonde with blue eyes they are literally lining up in this country, everyone wants a mami-chula. But it's so much nicer to have the company of an intelligent man. And I'm not talking about an ugly intelligent man, there are plenty of clever 40/50 somethings who are still in very good shape. Surely you'd appreciate the company of a clever lady, your age group, who is attractive and sexy, takes care of herself and can give you intelligent conversation? Surely that would be a far more fulfilling way to spend your time than watching Ms Stupidity flashing her tits and taking selfies of herself 24/7? I see so many old guys here with these young chicas, nobody's speaking, both playing with their phones, both looking bored to tears, waiting to get into the cabaña and get it all over with. It's just sad.

Running around, being chased by ( or chasing ) " eye candy " is all fun and games when one is a twenty-something-year old.
Just so you know that many of us men grow out of that phase and behavior before we hit 30.

 

[jd426]

Running around, being chased by ( or chasing ) " eye candy " is all fun and games when one is a twenty-something-year old.
Just so you know that many of us men grow out of that phase and behavior before we hit 30.

So then you saying the DIVORCED Man , who has perhaps Raised a Family already , Or better yet a Widower is NOT allowed to pursue Happiness any longer,? cuz he missed his Shot ?

please elaborate ..

 

[malko]

So then you saying the DIVORCED Man , who has perhaps Raised a Family already , Or better yet a Widower is NOT allowed to pursue Happiness any longer,? cuz he missed his Shot ?

please elaborate ..

Before 30, happiness = good looking chicks, the more the merrier.

After 30, happiness tends to factor in a bunch of other boring stuff, like responsible and responsibilities, a higher IQ than the room temperature, not needing to read the " DO NOT EAT " warning on the crayon 🖍️ box, etc, etc....

 

[CristoRey]

Completely agree I have one gay friend who would be there like a shot but I can't think of any other guy that would step foot in such a place. It's not exactly pleasant having your eyebrows pulled out with a bit of string or having someone sand down the bottom of your feet, or having hairs stuck to hot wax pulled out of your foofoo region, I don't think I'd want a man in the vicinity while that's happening.

I would. On my way to the salon now to get my beard waxed.

 

[RustyT]

There is no shortage of women on this island who hold the belief that extranjeros are only looking for sex and avoid them like the plague.

Of course but there are still a huge number, hundreds of thousands I’d estimate, over 30 who are interested or at least will to date a non Dominican. I’m sure you know this

 

[Big]

I’m sure it depends on the guy. There is no way Mr AE would sit in a salon for more than 5 minutes. Actually I can’t imagine him even entering one.

I sit on the bench outside, limited time, cup of coffee, the place makes major coin.

 

[Big]

Running around, being chased by ( or chasing ) " eye candy " is all fun and games when one is a twenty-something-year old.
Just so you know that many of us men grow out of that phase and behavior before we hit 30.

I don't know these men!

 

[Big]

Further,. This island is jam packed with salons. One on every corner and cosmetic surgeons on every other corner. These woman are primping for men, not a job interview.

 

[NanSanPedro]

Further,. This island is jam packed with salons. One on every corner and cosmetic surgeons on every other corner. These woman are primping for men, not a job interview.

And don't forget the gyms...those with the caricatured asses aren't there to sit on them.

 

[guayaba79]

Welp.. All good things come to an end... Ole girl was getting a bit to comfortable and wanted to keep asking for money.. I asked for some billing statements to show some proof of needed funds and was met with alot of resistance.. Oh well.. My friend asks aren't you upset you wasted your time? what are you going to do now? I tell him, go down there and get another one

 

[Notengo]

Welp.. All good things come to an end... Ole girl was getting a bit to comfortable and wanted to keep asking for money.. I asked for some billing statements to show some proof of needed funds and was met with alot of resistance.. Oh well.. My friend asks aren't you upset you wasted your time? what are you going to do now? I tell him, go down there and get another one

Ole girl probably already had another one like you. But keep up the macho!

 

[Big]

Ole girl probably already had another one like you. But keep up the macho!

Every man does not want to be a delicate flower. The Alpha male is an endangered species.

 

[JD Jones]

Welp.. All good things come to an end... Ole girl was getting a bit to comfortable and wanted to keep asking for money.. I asked for some billing statements to show some proof of needed funds and was met with alot of resistance.. Oh well.. My friend asks aren't you upset you wasted your time? what are you going to do now? I tell him, go down there and get another one

Dude. Today is the 13th.

Aren't you the guy who said this a week ago:

"With that said, don't run from a woman because she asked you for money, especially if she is a piece of eye candy in her mid to late 20's.. Because at the end of the day, all woman want something, and if I'm providing any kind of support, I'd rather do it for eye candy"

It gets old, doesn't it?

 

[Notengo]

Every man does not want to be a delicate flower. The Alpha male is an endangered species.

A real Alpha male has his business in the middle of his pants, not in his side pockets.

 

[ando1991]

Great, another sexist man who views all women as users and those over 40 as ugly and out of shape. Like seriously WTF.

I am significantly richer than my partner, I have always run and owned businesses, I went to an extremely good university and I'm nobody's fool. And I'm also not ugly and not fat, despite being over 40. Just because you date women who are gold-diggers, please understand that there are millions of us out there who stand on our own two feet and don't need a man to pay for us. This said, I'm not a man-hater, I like nothing more than putting on a short skirt and high heels and I love male attention.

"I don't need a man" says it all.

 

[guayaba79]

Ole girl probably already had another one like you. But keep up the macho!

Maybe... her sister is begging me to continue ..

Dude. Today is the 13th.

Aren't you the guy who said this a week ago:

"With that said, don't run from a woman because she asked you for money, especially if she is a piece of eye candy in her mid to late 20's.. Because at the end of the day, all woman want something, and if I'm providing any kind of support, I'd rather do it for eye candy"

It gets old, doesn't it?

True, but there is limits to everything.. Being supportive versus being a bank is quiet different.

 

[keepcoming]

Maybe... her sister is begging me to continue ..



True, but there is limits to everything.. Being supportive versus being a bank is quiet different.

When you are looking for a "piece of eye candy, mid to late 20"s" what did you expect?

 

[SKY]

When you are looking for a "piece of eye candy, mid to late 20"s" what did you expect?

Most take the course Novio Viejo 101.....................