And how do you shake the hand that shook the hand of Abraham?
With your copy of Pink and Say in the other hand?
And how do you shake the hand that shook the hand of Abraham?
Being in business for a long time, I'm a firm hand shaker. The past 5-6 years since we started distributing a European hair salon line , our customers are primarily Dominican salons, mostly women owned. I have never had one of them shake my hand unless I offered mine first - but after all these years I'm still a little uncomfortable with the fact that just about every Dominican woman who comes into my warehouse instantly kisses my cheek when I open the door, before they even step inside (we're not open to the public, so the door is locked). Some of them add a hug. One of them often puts her hand on my shoulder or head while I'm preparing her bill and blesses me in Jesus' name.
Definitely not the normal US business protocol
so if its my culture not to kiss ? what happens then ? who should respect whos culture ?
I wouldnt expect a Chineseman to rush up and kiss me !
you could end up doing one potato two potato
Yes, I know that it is part of the culture here. When I first got to Las Terrenas, the maid brought her daughter to work with her and she, the daughter, who was about twenty, came right up to me and kissed me. But WOWOWOW wait, I am not Dominican. And they had no way of knowing, since I was in a weekly rental.... of whether or not I was planning to adapt and reside....
ok. now. i am not going to break down my years of anglo saxon puritan stuff for this one....
middle ground...
I personally am not going around kissing OR hugging people that I do not know.
If we have met a few times, AND if I like you, AND if we have a GENUINE affection for one another, THEN we kiss.
I think that this whole training of women to kiss ... well ... it is how women are trained here......
like the way they have the teenage girls doing the pelvic thrusts in the parades..... I mean... we could use JUST a little more modesty, Ladies.....
and we can go on and on with that one
folds up soap box, exit stage left
Exactly.Sometimes it is simply wiser, and more efficient, to assess circumstances as they arise.
So, you want an iron-clad, no variance, non-negotiable, bullet-proof, and steadfast rule that will carry through any situation, despite any number of variables, which might come into play?
Good luck with that.
Sometimes it is simply wiser, and more efficient, to assess circumstances as they arise.