Laura I have successful and professional Dominican friends who now live in Toronto who have told me the same frustrations about their 'own country' that you just mentioned, and that is why they have left and their friends and collegues have too or are planning to. Within the next year, 20 more couples/families are immigrating to Toronto. And these are not Dominicans who have to, due to financial reasons they, are tired of the negatives in their country and that is why they have left. That is what concerns me the most.
The sense of hopelessness about the future progress that these Dominicans have about their own country is not a good thing. If the people who are in a position to make and effect change in a country feel hopeless to the point they want to make an exodus, that is concerning but also telling.
I think it is important to talk about the realities of living in the DR, the good and the bad. So people are informed, who may be thinking about moving to paradise! Some people only want to talk about the good side or deflect the bad with a 'it happens everywhere and things are blown out of proportion'. Thats not true.
Thats interesting! I absoloutly dont want this thread to become a bashing or the DR as there are many things i fell in love with and my husband is a good man and my daughter is Dominican too. But i have to think with my head and NOT my heart!!
There are many things about the U.K i dislike, but over the last 5 years i have learned that many of these things are for a reason. I made a comment to one of the Mods here on dr1 a short while ago about what i thought were the best and worse things about living in the DR which made her laugh at its truthfulness.
1. The Best - The freedom to pretty much do as you please
2. The worst - Everyone around you also has the freedom to do pretty much as they please too!
What i dont want to do is place my husband in a enviroment where he would be unhappy also, Im just trying to do whats best for my family. Financially we would be better off here, but thats not the be all and end all to me.