ha ha ha, i know, i have never even been to america. but i think you are underestimating your people. i remember my first image of USA, from old american movies like
grace. people had houses. actual houses. with rooms for every kid. more than one bathroom. and they had cars. cool cars. even teenagers had cars. it was... unbelievable. unthinkable. i did not understand, how was it possible? and people used planes. i thought? who could afford a plane ticket? how could that be? and coca cola? american diners with free coffee? free? i have never imagined something could be free.
and then came credit cards. i could not understand (i still don't, to be honest, so i don't have my own cc, only the extension of miesposo's card). people were getting things without having to pay for them straight away. how strange! magical. wonderful.
back home we lived in apartment blocks. 40 square meters for a family of 4. to get a car one had to sign up on a waiting list. kids were not allowed even to touch it, let alone drive it. everyone was dressed the same because there was limited choice of clothing in shops. i had my first snickers bar at 15. before that i never knew they even existed....
and all this time, there was no such thing as credit. one started saving for an apartment upon getting married. by the time the kid came along and it reached 18 or 20 years old savings were enough to be able to get another tiny apartment. i was taught to save. not to spend. i was taught never to buy something unless i could afford to pay for it cold hard cash.
i suppose i identify with dominicans here because they had, they still have, tough life. so do not tell me about americans not being hyper spending tv monsters. you still are, very much so. consuming, all the time. used to being able to reach the goal easy way. to get things now and pay later. did you tighten the belt? i believe so, inasmuch as it it possible, with your fat bellies.
but did the mentality change? tell me, did it?