The problem is this, the Dominican Republic is always the victim that no one sees as the victim.
In Spanish, nouns have genders. Hence, the Dominican Republic is female while Haiti is male.
With that in mind, the story of the DR and Haiti is akin to a woman that has been raped, abused, chastised, accused, discredited, attacked, and insulted by a man that has been lusting her since the day he laid his eyes on her.
The only thing this woman (Dominican Republic) wanted to do is be free, live her life according to her own terms. But that desire of her was often repressed by that man (Haiti) that often acted as a person with the ENTJ personality type; intimidating, calculating, with a strong desire to control her.
He always distrusted her, he always despised her, he always wanted her to die, to suffer, to be subject to his will, his power, his desires.
Now that she is freer than ever, she still shows signs of being traumatize from those years of excessive abuse from him. She fears him, to the point of being paranoid.
All he has to do is move a finger and she's already in panic mode.
All he has to do is open his mouth, and she's already feeling helpless and unable to cope.
All he has to do is look at her, and she looks down to the ground, an act of submission despite wanting to break free of this abusive relationship.
She, as the female, has been discredited, has been abused, has been used, has been subject to all sorts of horrors from him.
At times, the fear she had for him was so strong and her sense of helplessness was so strong, that she felt it was easier to commit suicide (ie. become a colony of Spain once more) than to continue living.
Now she is stronger than ever, she has finally evolved to a point that she is the stronger one, she is the most powerful one, she is more progressive than him; and despite that, he still knows how to turn that dagger and open the wounds, open the floodgates of emotions; reminding her of who's truly in charge. It's all a minds game, but its a game that has been played too well.
As always and as is often the case with women in traumatized situations, the victim is the one who is discredited, the victim is the one who is blamed, the victim is the one being expected to change her ways to appease to the desires of him.
Its a vicious cycle that of the power struggle of Hispaniola.
The funny thing is that its not so much a power struggle for the entire island, but rather a struggle of survival for her and of conquest for him.
He always finds a way to keep her in check, when not by force, he does it through lies and discrediting. When he can't control her physically, he controls her psychologically.
At the end of the day, in everyone's mind, the problem is not him with his aggressive ways; but her for standing up to his abuses and trying to put an end to all of this.
In the mind of many, she's nothing more than a whore while he is the "victim".
The fact that he has been the aggressive one and she is simply reacting as the traumatized being she is has no impact in that illusion.