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MariaRubia

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I was there last weekend. If a guy accepts money to trade bodily fluids with another guy he is gay. If he does it for money then he is a gay prostitute. Same for the girls. If they accept money from the ugliest guy on earth that makes her a prostitute. If she does it with another woman that makes her a gay prostitute. (Or lesbian prostitute, I can't keep up with the terminology or acronyms)

Gay is gay whether there is money involved or not

All good except you're missing the words "In my opinion" Melphis. I completely disagree with you, but I am happy to hear alternative opinions.
 
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I was there last weekend. If a guy accepts money to trade bodily fluids with another guy he is gay. If he does it for money then he is a gay prostitute. Same for the girls. If they accept money from the ugliest guy on earth that makes her a prostitute. If she does it with another woman that makes her a gay prostitute. (Or lesbian prostitute, I can't keep up with the terminology or acronyms)

Gay is gay whether there is money involved or not
You're showing your advanced age and ignorance, not to mention intolerance.
 
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This is a life changing event. Would you leave it up to chance of hearsay? It is called due diligence for a reason. The OP may try to excuse himself claiming he tried but in what could potentially deprive him of his freedom, he should have invested more effort. Besides ignorance or any other excuse does not absolve him of legal consequences.


Perhaps and depending on the judge it might fly but again would you play russian roulette with your freedom and your future for a paltry one night stand?

Thankfully being blonde female and gorgeous (well two of those things anyway) I don't actually have to pay for sex and I prefer a man who is a man, not a boy. However, I do feel sorry for the OP and I can sympathise with someone who finds themselves in a horrible predicament in a foreign country.
 
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However, I do feel sorry for the OP and I can sympathise with someone who finds themselves in a horrible predicament in a foreign country.

Agreed. The thing is that this discussion is not happening in a vacuum. I want to make it abundantly clear that this situation is illegal and could be avoided for other tourist planning on visiting. A bit of common sense with a dash of precaution followed by checking of ID for age compliance will make their pay for play adventures in DR or any other country less reckless. As an added bonus they wont be considered for blackmail or be deprived of their freedom for unsavory behavior with manors
 

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Agreed. The thing is that this discussion is not happening in a vacuum. I want to make it abundantly clear that this situation is illegal and could be avoided for other tourist planning on visiting. A bit of common sense with a dash of precaution followed by checking of ID for age compliance will make their pay for play adventures in DR or any other country less reckless. As an added bonus they wont be considered for blackmail or be deprived of their freedom for unsavory behavior with manors

I think we need to state it more clearly to be honest. So here's Maria's guide to cedulas just in case it helps anyone.

All Dominican nationals aged over 18 have a cedula which has their date of birth on it. If anyone doesn't have a cedula, they are not Dominican or under-age. Haitians will have an ID card from Haiti or a passport, other nationalities always have some form of ID. So no cedula or ID = no go. If you are thinking of having casual sex with anyone (or indeed if you're thinking of letting anyone into your house ie to repair the washing machine) it's always a good idea to take a photo of their cedula and make sure it is uploaded to the internet. All decent hotels will insist that Dominican visitors produce their cedula before going to your room, and the hotel will take a copy. The police can find anyone if you have a copy of their cedula.

Some young people who are under 18 also have cedulas. The word MENOR will be clearly printed on the back of the cedula in big letters and their date of birth is also on the front. So even if someone waves a cedula at you, it doesn't mean they are over 18, you must check that the date of birth is 2003 or before.
 

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The OP seems to have omitted describing how he got the young lad past the security guard at his hotel/condo. There aren't many places without security guards and if you are staying somewhere without security cavorting with young folks whose cedula is missing, the red flags start piling up.
 
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The OP seems to have omitted describing how he got the young lad past the security guard at his hotel/condo. There aren't many places without security guards and if you are staying somewhere without security cavorting with young folks whose cedula is missing, the red flags start piling up.
He may have used a cabana, he seems to have gone AWOL.
 

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So if a guy trades bodily fluids with a woman he is straight? Or does gay always trump straight?
I've no idea but I can tell you this type of behavior is wide spread in Atlanta, GA
hence them having such a rate of HIV between both sexes. One which is comparable
to "3rd world" countries.
 
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