The two are not mutually exclusive in the DR.But NALs - there is politics, and there is personal relationships. Politicians are elected to serve everyone, not only their personal network of friends and family. There has to be a balance between serving both, which does not exist in the DR. E.g. there is a fair amount of corruption and nepotism in Spain, but at the same time enough is usually put to the common good for the country to move forward.
You progress and you must share your progress with those whom you trust and admire.
In a real democracy, politicians are elected to serve everyone, but that is only true in real democracies. In premature democracies -countries that had democracy forced upon them by external powers without taking into consideration that democracy is not just having institutions, but also an attitude, a culture, a way of thinking which needed to be developed in traditional societies prior to imposing democracy- the fact that the traditional ways of thinking were never challenged had lead to what is seen not just in the DR, but all over the Third World.
In essence, you have the democratic institutions in place, the state looks like those of the First World; but it functions like those of a Third World because the most fundamental aspect of democracy was not addressed when it was imposed on such country.
Its similar to giving money to extremely poor people and then letting them do what they want, in the process hoping they act in the same rational manner that wealthier people act with such money. The fact is that its an illusion. You give extremely poor people money without psychologically preparing them for such, and within months they will have spent the money and will be poor again.
That's the problem with many people with First World mentality. Many think that if you simply create the institutions of democracy that Third World people would then grow into them and eventually act in a democratic fashion, but that's all B.S. Democracy is not something than can be imposed on people. People don't grow into the democracy, people create it!
You cannot expect that a person who is used to wearing dirty clothes will suddenly become better educated and modern by simply wearing a new suit. It won't happen. The suit will become dirty and rip apart, why?
Sugar coating doesn't work!
Then we have to ask ourselves the question of whether its right to impose on others your views, completely disregarding their own value systems which are as strong and they believe in as much as you do in yours. Both sides believe they are right and both sides see the "proofs" that justifies their beliefs.
What are those "proofs"? Well, it depends if you are materialistic or people focused. Hence, both sides don't understand how the other one's can act so "immoral".
-NALs