Can I be a little mischievious today???
Syrita said:
I was in Puerto Plata with my boyfriend on our annual trip. He is dominican (born/raised in NY) and whenever we go to the resorts he never gets good service. We feel like it's because he has money and goes to the resorts that the local dominicans don't like him as if he thinks he's better than them (not true). Or it could be that they figure since my man is dominican that he must be using me and why should he be the only one to get something out of me. But whenever he is at my side no one dares to talk to me. As soon as he walks away from me or i happen to be alone for the moment the men (sankies) are constantly flirting and never miss the chance to try to hook up with me. I find this disgusting and so disrespectful to me and my man. Although i am not dominican (soy mexicana) I figured being spanish would make them stay away since they tend to go after the young and presumably dumb white/canadian/german girls. But I guess sankies love anyone they think has money and could be their ticket out.
I have been to MANY resorts, and have met and hung out with MANY 'sankies' (I hate that word!!! :angry: ) when I was a single woman...
Let me tell you,
most Dominicans that go to the resorts when they are on vacation from the US, ACT LIKE ASS***** just because they are so 'comparones' and they want their fellow countrymen to KNOW they come from the US and HAVE MONEY!!! Don't act like your man doesn't do that...:ermm: You are just defending him 'cause he's your boyfriend...admit it...:rambo:
And how do you know that
ANYONE is flirting with you if you are not looking or giving them a chance to do so???
Gimme a break!!! How can you consider that kind of attention
disgusting and so disrespectful ...you are on vacation, for heaven's sake...just relax and enjoy it...:lick:
If you think it's disrespectful, just ignore them, look away, or even better, don't
EVEN LOOK AT THEM!!!
It's been my experience that if you tell them that you have a boyfriend, or are married, they leave you alone...
Tony and I have been to many resorts together, and whenever I'm by myself, the guys are always flirting with me, but I find that cute...as long as they know I'm there with my fianc?...they don't bother me anymore...
Since it's an 'annual' thing for you guys, you better learn to deal with it, or better yet...don't go to the AI's anymore...do us ALL a favor...stop critizicing the poor guys/gals that work in the resorts and are trying to find a better life for themselves...
If the girls are so dumb as to fall for them, (and believe me, it happened to me on my first trip, thank God I realized what was going on from the beginning, and just played along 'cause the kid was REALLY cute...) I say GOOD FOR THEM!!!
MQ...(in a very bit*** mood today!...I think I need my dose of Dominican Chocolate
SOON!!!)