If you know he's wrong in calling your girl a hooker, you dismiss it & laugh it off. If you have a tinge of doubt, you fight................there IS an ignore button btw.
You can't put a mod on ignore.If you know he's wrong in calling your girl a hooker, you dismiss it & laugh it off. If you have a tinge of doubt, you fight................there IS an ignore button btw.
Well sfbut,
Like you, I do not live in DR yet, but I have made the requisite visits, I have learned through mostly sober eyes a few things that you need to be very mindful of:
1) Life in DR is raw. It's real, raw, and candid.
Well sfbut,
2) Your list of those you can trust in the DR should be among the shortest lists you keep until you are able to observe your "friend's" daily activities. Not all appears as it seems, and not all people appear as they seem. If you have more than one or two trusted advisors as to how to live life in the DR you have too many. Money is never a source of discussion, even with your trusted advisors. Not yet, not now, maybe never.
3) Some of your best anonymous advice will come from here, and it comes in the form of unsolicited posts that may be related to the area where you want to live.
4) The expat community is not as large as you may think. Neither is the local community where you may be living. Words here and actions on the ground can have consequences. Keep everyone as friends, but keep an arm's distance until you fully understand what is happening around you.
Well sfbut,
Like you, I do not live in DR yet, but I have made the requisite visits, I have learned through mostly sober eyes a few things that you need to be very mindful of:
1) Life in DR is raw. It's real, raw, and candid.
2) Your list of those you can trust in the DR should be among the shortest lists you keep until you are able to observe your "friend's" daily activities. Not all appears as it seems, and not all people appear as they seem. If you have more than one or two trusted advisors as to how to live life in the DR you have too many. Money is never a source of discussion, even with your trusted advisors. Not yet, not now, maybe never.
3) Some of your best anonymous advice will come from here, and it comes in the form of unsolicited posts that may be related to the area where you want to live.
4) The expat community is not as large as you may think. Neither is the local community where you may be living. Words here and actions on the ground can have consequences. Keep everyone as friends, but keep an arm's distance until you fully understand what is happening around you.
Chip,
fully agree with the mentioned favorism of light skin,
that's fact,
but only between natives.
that favorism of light skin has nothing to do with foreigners, independent of skin color.
Whether you call it "helping her out", or think you're "befriending someone less fortunate", in the DR you're never the first, always the NEXT, and rarely...HER ONE.If you think it's love, try not paying in the morning....
If you think it's love, try not paying in the morning....