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What's wrong with Dominican men?
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OK, but the question still remains???
Since so many of us have been given to making generalizations
my original question still stands. What TYPE OF DOMINICAN
WOMAN IS MORE LIKELY TO CHEAT ONE FROM THE CAMPO OR
ONE FROM LA CIUDAD?
ENQUIRING MINDS WOULD LIKE TO KNOW???????????????
Since so many of us have been given to making generalizations
my original question still stands. What TYPE OF DOMINICAN
WOMAN IS MORE LIKELY TO CHEAT ONE FROM THE CAMPO OR
ONE FROM LA CIUDAD?
ENQUIRING MINDS WOULD LIKE TO KNOW???????????????
Dominican men don't think that much Matilda. If they like a women they are even capable of abandoning their own household. Hey Isaac campesinas are more faithful but you need to find a convertida.
I remember a sociology class in college that had addressed the infidelity issue and there were statistics to go with it. Rural folk were less apt to cheat on their spouses. The professor mainly attributed breakups and cheating to pressures and complications that urban life brings. But who's to say campo folk wouldn't marry a relative? I don't think you could eally knows the answer now-a- days.
Karen Milton said:
"bad" "Unfaithful" Just because some people do not suscribe to your Morality that does not make them bad!
Tony C.
Re: what is a convertida?
Basically it is a "Born Again Christian" AKA Illogical or Delusional
Just a question. If a person is "Born Again" does that mean they have 2 belly Buttons?
Always remember... The only difference between a "Cult" and a "MainStream Religion" is the Number of Members!
Tony C.
Isaac G said:
Basically it is a "Born Again Christian" AKA Illogical or Delusional
Just a question. If a person is "Born Again" does that mean they have 2 belly Buttons?
Always remember... The only difference between a "Cult" and a "MainStream Religion" is the Number of Members!
Tony C.
I hope that Tony C's attempts to make a joke re converteds haven't given you the wrong idea. I know a number of them from my many years of living in Samana. About 95% of the people in the DR are Catholic. Many of the rest are members of one of the fundamentalist Protestant groups, such as Seventh Day Adventist, Baptist, etc. These are what people are calling the Converteds. They are very serious about their religion and they are very anti-Catholic, who they believe worship idols (the many statues, etc., displayed prominently in Catholic churches). They read the bible, attend church services regularly, participate in Men's Clubs, etc, in the church, and take literally what is said in the bible. They attempt to practice in their daily lives the teachings of Christ, etc., as recorded in the bible. If they were living in many parts of the US, they would not be noteworthy since there are a great many who live and worship in the same way. But they do stand out in the DR. First because they are Protestants in a Catholic country. Second because they are more conservative in their dress and behavior than most of the rest.
tema numero uno....
Religion aside, I think the emotional component hasn't been apreciated enuf.
You show me a (domonican) couple madly in love where the guy wants to
get busy with another chika passing by. I know there is somthing like love,
lust and devotion, the problem is it doesn't last forever. And whoever hangs
on longer to this happy state will suffer more.
Good morning X
Religion aside, I think the emotional component hasn't been apreciated enuf.
You show me a (domonican) couple madly in love where the guy wants to
get busy with another chika passing by. I know there is somthing like love,
lust and devotion, the problem is it doesn't last forever. And whoever hangs
on longer to this happy state will suffer more.
Good morning X
Well said x_man. I can't believe that all Dominican men are like that. If a man or woman of any country truely values what they have, why would they take a chance of losing it for a different piece of you know what. But then if they don't value what they have,that tells you something. :bunny:
Anna,you too miss the point!(This Ain,t Kansas!)
A Dominican man will not "lose" his wife when she finds him cheating! She rants and raves,and throws him out of the house! He goes to his mothers house for a 2-3 day "cooling-off" period.Everyone counsels the "wife" to;think about the children,all men do it,he promises not to do it again,everything is back to "normal" by Sunday dinner! Then the cycle repeats it,s self! Men don,t stop cause there is no "down-side" here! Criss C
A Dominican man will not "lose" his wife when she finds him cheating! She rants and raves,and throws him out of the house! He goes to his mothers house for a 2-3 day "cooling-off" period.Everyone counsels the "wife" to;think about the children,all men do it,he promises not to do it again,everything is back to "normal" by Sunday dinner! Then the cycle repeats it,s self! Men don,t stop cause there is no "down-side" here! Criss C
I also fell in love with a Dominican man, He was sweet, tender, and even if I knew I would not be able to go on with a long distance relationship I spent the most wonderful time with him... Listen to your heart and stop wondering or you'll never live.
Best wishes.
Best wishes.
Issac G
I bet on "campesinas" having a hotter libido than city girls. Campesinas have no loyalty to their men at all. I have ran across many of these girls from "el campo" who would stare at other men while holding hands with their boyfriends. They don't make it a secret.
I have a different version than AZB on "evengelicas". These are the horniest chicks on earth. I have experienced this personally. They have even taken me to sing along at their church with "panderetas" on hand, and afterwards, even the kitchen table was not enough.
TW
I bet on "campesinas" having a hotter libido than city girls. Campesinas have no loyalty to their men at all. I have ran across many of these girls from "el campo" who would stare at other men while holding hands with their boyfriends. They don't make it a secret.
I have a different version than AZB on "evengelicas". These are the horniest chicks on earth. I have experienced this personally. They have even taken me to sing along at their church with "panderetas" on hand, and afterwards, even the kitchen table was not enough.
TW
I am married to a dominican man and he is very faithful and he is no convertida either. U just have to keep them on their toes and that goes for any man whatever race, religion, or creed.
I dont think that all the people on this thread are saying that there isn't one decent Dominican man that won't cheat on his wife. I am sure that there is and you probably got him!
I once heard about a "Flying Cow"too,.....................
...but to this day I ain't seen one!CRISCO
...but to this day I ain't seen one!CRISCO
Yes it's an old thread but one thing I want to point out and here is an excerpt from TW:
"The perfect loyal Dominican man has not been created. It is impossible. Even God cannot make one. And, beware of the ones who boast they are totally loyal to their wives. They are the worst. Notice how the "caba?a business" keeps expanding. hardly any "caba?a" has gone broke. In fact, on any friday or saturday night you might get lucky if you find a vacancy all day. 90% of clients are married men. "
I believe that Gringo's quickly adapt to the Dominican mentailty.. There is no such thing as in "culture shock" for them. Case in point, my brother, not having lived in S.D. more than 6 weeks was hissing and doing that lip and nose pointing thing like a native Dominican. He stares at a women like a starved dog. He never did this sort of thing before living there. Goes to show you, men are in candyland there and love it. I know some Dominican men here married to South American women who have never been to R.D. These women actually trust them when they say that they'll take the "kids" down to the homeland and the wife stays here. Shee...yeah, we all what's happenin' there. It's like getting out of jail and going to heaven...
"The perfect loyal Dominican man has not been created. It is impossible. Even God cannot make one. And, beware of the ones who boast they are totally loyal to their wives. They are the worst. Notice how the "caba?a business" keeps expanding. hardly any "caba?a" has gone broke. In fact, on any friday or saturday night you might get lucky if you find a vacancy all day. 90% of clients are married men. "
I believe that Gringo's quickly adapt to the Dominican mentailty.. There is no such thing as in "culture shock" for them. Case in point, my brother, not having lived in S.D. more than 6 weeks was hissing and doing that lip and nose pointing thing like a native Dominican. He stares at a women like a starved dog. He never did this sort of thing before living there. Goes to show you, men are in candyland there and love it. I know some Dominican men here married to South American women who have never been to R.D. These women actually trust them when they say that they'll take the "kids" down to the homeland and the wife stays here. Shee...yeah, we all what's happenin' there. It's like getting out of jail and going to heaven...
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