Ok - if they are only going to get awarded 1000 pesos, then yes, I can understand the women not bothering with it. They could end up spending much in motoconcho expenses trying to collect.
But why does this same attitude prevail when the father could (and should because he makes enough money) pay 5000-10,000/month. Why not go after that? Even though that is still not a lot for a child each month, it is enough to make a big difference.
Though - now my bigger issue is with the men who basically abandon the child. I understand that they know other family will take of the child. But why is it so easy for the father to so easily ignore or run away from their obligations. (And worse, to repeat the same offense again with another woman - and sometimes multiple times with different women...)
I know this happens in other countries (so we do not need to bring up "it happens everywhere"), but it seems to happen a lot here in the DR - and for some reason seems to be "accepted" as "the way it is". Yet - somehow that thought process needs to start changing - so the next generation does not learn the same bad family practices...
Let me see if I can help you out. You cannot make a man into a father if he does not want to be one. You have to place some of the blame on the women for choosing to have sex with a guy that is no more responsible then a 7 yr old. I can tell if a man or boy will make a decent father just by talking with them for an hour, and I am not spending as much time with them as their women partners are. If the women chose to overlook a man serious flaws as a possible father to her children then that is on her.
I have met horrible fathers in DR and what I can tell you about all of them is I bet they showed no signs to the women that they would make good fathers even before they slept together.
I have two daughters one in Chicago one in Santo Domingo and neither one lives with me. It is not as easy as it sounds for a man just to write checks and send money every month when he is not in the same household. There are times when I want to purchase a big ticket item, but can't because I have two girls that I have to place ahead of my own desires. I can't give my daughter in Santo Domingo the same thing my daughter in Chicago receives but I try to make her little life as happy as I can.
Many men do not get a kick out of their kids the way some of us do, they think it is a requirement to love your kids but I believe it is a privilege.
School just started back and my daughter know she is not allowed to get out of the car until I get a hug and kiss LOL and when I see other fathers dropping off their kids its like they are not even parents. I love my daughters, I like my daughter, and I am crazy about my daughters. Other men are crazy about their new GF's or new wives SAD!!! but true.