I trust him...that's it...he's shown me that I can do that...
He's always either home or working, doesn't go to clubs, if he parties is at home, at his friends, or at the colmado by his house, where everyone knows me...and he answers the phone no matter what time of day or night I call him...
You know, I think women can 'feel' it when a man is lying or cheating on us...don't you agree girls? Up to this minute, I have no reason to doubt him...if I ever do, then I'll know how to deal with it...But what I REFUSE to do is to live my life constantly thinking wheather he's cheating or being truthful or not...
Now, if he has sex with other girls while I'm here and he's there...and I don't know about it...well...what can I do? Agonize over it? I don't think so...and he's young and viril...so there might be a chance that it could happen...But I don't believe it has happened yet!
Ok...back to topic...AnnaC...I'm glad you understood what I was trying to say...
From our talks, I don't think Tony will change...I have asked him repeatedly to keep that in mind, I want to get used to HIS way of thinking, and not the other way around...
And you girls might think I've totally lost ALL my marbles, but Tony and I ARE planning on going back to live in DR...and in the near future! :cheeky:
About having relationships with someone from your same culture, I don't agree...Culture and values are two different things...I embrace the difference in culture, but we both have the SAME values...and that's what's making this relationship work...
MQ