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    I'm currently dating a Latino (not Dominican), and am having a fight with him. Obviously, I turn to my girlfriends for advice, and in talking to one of them, our convo turned to white girls and Latin men.
    I am a white girl, and for the past four years have dated strictly Latin men. I go with my bf's/guys I am seeing to the Latin clubs/fests/etc and I always see white girls clamoring for the Latin guys (Dominicans and Puerto Ricans in particular), and I always thought it was because Latin men are amazing lovers (they aren't afraid to go where the white guys won't!), and they treat their women like gold. Apparently I'm wrong?
    My girlfriend (who is Latina) claims Latin men are dogs and mistreat their women, and they only thing they think a white girl is good for is making babies. According to her, I've had amazing luck with my Latin bf's, because I've always been treated well, and she is convinced that is some kid of miraculous occurance, because all Latino's are dogs.
    I know the majority of Latino's I meet, always comment on how beautiful our babies would be...even before I've gotten a chance to know them! But, I always assumed Latin men liked white women, because we are exotic to them and represent a form of status.
    So, what do the men in this forum think? I've always been curious about this.....

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    Thats funny!

    Latino men think white girls are easy hoes that look for the platano with no strings. You are getting juiced baby while he is committed to a more conservative Latina. Can I get some too?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mario
    Thats funny!

    Latino men think white girls are easy hoes that look for the platano with no strings. You are getting juiced baby while he is committed to a more conservative Latina. Can I get some too?


    The only Latin guys who would see having a gringa as a step up in "social status" are chopos.

    Scandall

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    Whether you are kidding or not.....that post was tasteless.
    Quote Originally Posted by Mario
    Thats funny!

    Latino men think white girls are easy hoes that look for the platano with no strings. You are getting juiced baby while he is committed to a more conservative Latina. Can I get some too?

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    Quote Originally Posted by mondongo
    Whether you are kidding or not.....that post was tasteless.

    Mondongo I agree, so as one of our few latin/Dominican posters here can you answer her question.

    We seem to get the same crap from the same people.


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    I don't know about being a step up but they definitely find the blonde hair, light skin, blue eyes and what not exotic. I was speaking about this with a friend from elsalvador who's mom is latina and her dad latino, but the mom has much lighter skin then your typical latino......She said that when her parents were dating her dad use to ask her mom to dye her hair blonde. Now in my experience I have alot of people approach me and comment on my freckles......how many latinos have you seen with freckles? So I think to some extent depending on where you meet your guy that this could be a plausible explaination.

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    Hello Pride21.

    I am Wag, latino, 6.0 feet tall, from a well off family and was educated in South America, US and Europe. Now I am in my late 30's, not bad looking and have some luck with the ladies.

    I want to give you a little background on myself before I comment on your question.

    Here are some of the things I have heard about the subject:

    - White girls are sluts that will jump in bed with anyone they like.
    - White girls = cold fish in bed compared to latinas.
    - Latinas are lousy in bed because they are conservative, white girls know what they do.
    - Latin lover.
    - Latinos cannot stay with only one woman they have to "diversify"
    - Latinos beat their women and they like it.
    - White men are lousy in bed.

    You will hear things like this all the time, and the truth is that it is all true, and it is all BS also.

    You will find examples that will match exactly the above statements, and you will find the same amount that will make you think otherwise.

    In the end it is all about perspective and personal experience. For example on your comment:

    But, I always assumed Latin men liked white women, because we are exotic to them and represent a form of status.
    I can tell you from the start, that if any girl thinks that a latin guy having a white girl is a step up in status for him, she has been hanging around the latin ghettos for too long.

    It all depends what circles you frequent.

    In summary; in my experience, the women we like to have as a love interest need to be:

    - Beautiful and classie.
    - A lady on the street.
    - A Hoe (not sure this is the correct spelling) in bed.
    - Loving, caring and undestanding.
    - Excelent "housewives"
    - Loving mothers.
    - Inteligent and career oriented.

    You might say, whoa! there are no such women, but you are wrong. There are few of them, but they are there.

    Oh and for the casual one nighter we just want:

    - A Hoe (not sure this is the correct spelling) in bed.
    - Goodlooking enough or nothing that a few beers won't take care of.


    That is all....

    Oh by the way, the above statement applies to all men not just latinos.

    [Edited for grammar, nobody is perfect :P]
    Last edited by Wag; 10-09-2005 at 06:05 PM.

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    Default funny how you only ask the opinion of the men...

    on this forum. Sorry hunny but most of your answers will be skewed. although few will be right on the money like Wag. My question for you is, what do you get out of dating "strictly latin men?" do you have an alterior motive? are you stepping up or down? Obviously your man treats you well so why do you even care? I dont want to sound mean but, yor post struck a nerve. from my experience It seems that many (not all!!) Latin men will treat a white woman (such as yourself) like gold and treat women of their own culture like crap. Why they do this...I have many speculations, but who really knows, everyone is unique and must have their own reasons. I think that for many ignorant men (and women) they consider it a step up to be with a person who is European looking, but this is old news.

    My point is be happy w/ your Latin lover because its true, it is rare to find a good one!!

    Quote Originally Posted by pride21
    I'm currently dating a Latino (not Dominican), and am having a fight with him. Obviously, I turn to my girlfriends for advice, and in talking to one of them, our convo turned to white girls and Latin men.
    I am a white girl, and for the past four years have dated strictly Latin men. I go with my bf's/guys I am seeing to the Latin clubs/fests/etc and I always see white girls clamoring for the Latin guys (Dominicans and Puerto Ricans in particular), and I always thought it was because Latin men are amazing lovers (they aren't afraid to go where the white guys won't!), and they treat their women like gold. Apparently I'm wrong?
    My girlfriend (who is Latina) claims Latin men are dogs and mistreat their women, and they only thing they think a white girl is good for is making babies. According to her, I've had amazing luck with my Latin bf's, because I've always been treated well, and she is convinced that is some kid of miraculous occurance, because all Latino's are dogs.
    I know the majority of Latino's I meet, always comment on how beautiful our babies would be...even before I've gotten a chance to know them! But, I always assumed Latin men liked white women, because we are exotic to them and represent a form of status.
    So, what do the men in this forum think? I've always been curious about this.....

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    Default jumping in...

    being an outsider... (not white nor latin) I think this sort of thinking is flawed.
    could it be the latins are as close to black as you can get with out being called out?

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    Quote Originally Posted by pride21
    I always thought it was because Latin men are amazing lovers (they aren't afraid to go where the white guys won't!), and they treat their women like gold. Apparently I'm wrong?

    I know the majority of Latino's I meet, always comment on how beautiful our babies would be...even before I've gotten a chance to know them! But, I always assumed Latin men liked white women, because we are exotic to them and represent a form of status.

    Dearie (sarcasm),

    Please do get over your white skin. And way to go on sexualizing latino males--have your darkest, and most exotic sexual fantasies been fullfilled?......yuck, i think I'm going to throw up now.
    Last edited by Exxtol; 10-09-2005 at 06:42 PM.

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