Que se puede decir......
old boy this is interesting post domestic violence. okay for myself I can say I do not get involved with any domestic disputes. not because I am a coward or anything like that only because it doesn't pay. nine times out of 10 the woman will end up back with the abuser. and you end up getting your ass kicked or worse.:I do not like seeing anyone abused. and that goes with physical or mental. but I have seen it too many times. where you get involved in the next day the woman and man are back together for whatever reasons. okay at this time I like to tell you guys a little story. when I was younger I had a friend and his mother and father Faw all the time. one-day my friend get in between his mother and father fighting. doing their fighting my friend got stabbed by either his mother a father accidentally. of course they stop fighting a carry them to the hospital. to tend to his wounds. thank God he was OK but about a month later the fighting began again and again and again. and as far as I know there are still fighting to this very day. PS also I take offense to the word low class barrio girls. my girlfriend lives in a barrio. which does not mean that she is low class. even though she is poor. I don't know if you guys are mixing up low class with poor. but it seems to me that you're grouping everyone that is in the barrio as one type of person. that many people live in a barrio that are hard-working people. maybe someone can tell the difference between low class and high-class. or maybe they are just talking about themselves. as having no class
If a person gets involved because he wants to make himself feel better, that's the wrong reason to do it.
The person needs to feel like "I will do my part because I believe in it and whatever happens after that is out of my control".
I posted, also, a long time ago, about an incident that happened between my Dominican brother-in-law (RIP) and me.
Since my sister decided to date and then marry him, and me knowing what SOME Dominicans are capable of doing to their girlfriends/wives, while in the DR, I invited him, my then g/f and my sister to "Casa Del Mofongo" in El Malecon.
As soon as we sat, I asked my sister and then g/f to please give us a second because I needed to talk to him.
I went straight to the point and told him something like this:
"Some Dominicans guys have this unpleasant reputation that they like to hit their girlfriends and/or wives, so let me tell you that "RRR" has 6 big brother who WILL defend her with their lives. I don't know who you are and I don't know if we will even become best friends but let me tell you that if I ever hear you raised a hand and hit my sister, I WILL hop into a plane, come here and I will grab a bat and beat the hell out of you. If after that, she decides to go back with you, that's ok with me. Even if she decides to never speak to me again, that's ok also, But just know that even if she or you never speak to me again, every single time to touch her, I WILL look for you and beat the hell out of you. Oooh, and by the way, I am the least violent of my brothers".
AFTER that and as time went by, we became very good friends.
We bacame so good friends that he always took the time to remind me how afraid he was of me, even since I had my little talk with him!!.
See, these people SHOULD be made aware that there are people out there who WILL defend their sisters, mothers, female family members and female friends!!. .
If they are indeed abusers, a "little talk" WILL make them mad. BUUUT:
If they are not abusers, they will NOT get mad since there's nothing to worry about.
Again, these sick bastards are nothing more than cowards....
When confronted with: "man don't hit women, why don't you hit me, a man", see how fast they lower their heads and walk away from you!.