some folks have an instinct to immediately give up and some to fight. i think it's not evident until bad things happen to you. the german guy could have been surprised, as in do not fully comprehend what's going on, especially if the criminals said/shouted something and did not show the gun straight away.
I must say that these kind of events just add to the already lingering feeling of unhappiness I have in this country. You can get robbed everywhere, even get killed in a robbery gone wrong anywhere, but here killing during a robbery doesn't seem to be a robbery gone wrong, it's just one of the outcomes of a robbery, maybe you live, maybe you die. Yesterday evening I went out to get a taco bell dinner for my wife, literally four blocks from my house. The evening is fresh, but I am doubting if I should drive with my window open.
The possibility that I die from a gun shot is something that would never cross my mind as a likely or even possible way to go, however, in this country it does cross my mind how it would be to die from a gun shot. Macabre way of thinking I know.
In the end I can probably live with that, but it adds up. With permission of Virgo, Natu and PICHARDO, DR in my opinion is maybe not a completely failed state, but in many aspects a failed society. There are reasons why we came here, but I do realize, and so does my (dominican) wife, that it was probably a mistake. When we moved back here in 2009 we had two small children, now we have 4 and they are getting bigger. Only now we realize that the stability of a developed country is worth a lot when you have growing children. And it's in many things, small and big. Crime I'd call big. Mediocre education I would call big. Probably small I would call the difference in how children grow up here after school. Mine are home, do their homework, play in the project where we live, one goes to soccer, that's it. In the weekend we try to go out with them, but where to bring them, to the zoo? with one chimp and two lions (without teeth)? to Museo Trampolin? There is not much here for children (except for the beach I guess). When I was young, and my brothers' and sisters' children now, we'd play in the street, one, two, three blocks away from my house. We'd come back when it would get dark. There were places to go to in the weekend, museums (well.....not that we would go there), I'd visit the library as a 12 year old twice a week on my bike., I'd go to the pool with my siblings or friends without my parents, When a day off we could go to Amsterdam or any of the big cities and see or do interesting things which formed us, on a sunny day we would go cycling in the province with the whole family. Besides that you can't cycle here for lack of well-paved streets, safe environment to cycle, it's too hot too to do anything outside the house for most of the year.
Conclusion: I do still have one or two reasons why I haven't packed yet, which weigh in heavily, but if I would be back in 2009 right now, knowing what I know now, I'd stay in Europe.
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