Talk about a "Square Canadian Peg",...in a "Dominican Hole"?
Do you ever leave your "Ivory Tower" here in the DR and see what living here actually is all about?
Leave it to you to bring up holes again.
I do leave my finca from time to time. I do contract services and interact with gringos and locals alike. I go out of my way to avoid situations where I may be in a situation where I will encounter difficulty. I obtained residency so I wouldn't have to worry about coming and going. I don't own a car, so I am not a target for Amet. I don't have to deal with insurance, marbets or any other that other nonsense. If I need a car I rent one or take a taxi. My lifestyle is such that I do not feel compelled to cruise the streets of Sosua after dark so I am never in a situation of having my wallet lifted or inadvertently offending some intoxicated socialite or working girl/guy.
Everyday I choose not to necessarily take the easiest path to fulfillment. I actively create a set of circumstances that reduce the likelihood that I would have to consider another approach. Todate, this has worked well. I have not paid a propina to anyone who I did not feel was deserving of such a reward.
If I can't live here on my terms, then I'll go somewhere else. If I have to drop a ton of cash for my day in court because I won't grease a palm, so be it. It'll be fun, once.
BTW, I'm not placing myself on a pedestal, as there is no practical advantage to me for doing so. That is just the person I am. If I promise to do something, I will do it. I don't lie to or cheat others. If I see RD$50,000 on the back of your toilet while using the facilities in your home, it will still be there when I leave. I bring it up only so that there is mention of a different opinion of how one can successfully live in this country, that does not require sinking to the lowest common denominator.
I choose to live this way. It is not always easy and there is always temptation but I am the only one who has to live with me. No one being able to say that I have ever done them wrong or taken advantage is it's own reward and makes it really easy to look at my own visage in a mirror. I surround myself with like minded people and have no desire or need at this stage of life to tolerate those who cannot pass muster.
"Hell is other people..." Jean-Paul Sartre, 1944
Crime begets more crime...
Low standards facilitates low expectations which brings about unsatisfactory results.
Pick your colloquialism.