This is an excellent post but if you go back to the first post of this thread you'll see that he hasn't arrived in Canada yet.
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This is an excellent post but if you go back to the first post of this thread you'll see that he hasn't arrived in Canada yet.
This is an excellent post but if you go back to the first post of this thread you'll see that he hasn't arrived in Canada yet.
OK thanks Anna I went back and checked......I thought what I was responding to was her first post :surprised
To answer your question candidly
NO, NO, NO!!!! nada .... no hope in a hopeless person, unless your ultimate goal is reforming him. :ermm:
No problem. She had two posts and the second one didn't have as much info.
The one with more details was lost in another thread so I put it all together.
Bad Situation
This is a bad situation, but at least he is showing his true colours before he set foot in Canada. The Canadian Government in all its wisdom :ermm: says that he is your responsibility. Once he has landed at the airport in Canada, even if he never sets foot in your house, but just disappears, well if he goes on assistance after that, you get to pay that back.
Yes it sucks that you're married and can't just walk away, but at least it hasn't come to him being in Canada, so I agree with Anna. If you're having doubts now, stop the process and see what happens.
I can't imagine that once he gets here, when there would be an actual reason for culture shock, a feeling of isolation and depression that it will get any better and if you think he asks for money now, how will you feel when he has to be totally reliant upon you?
Good Luck
This is a bad situation, but at least he is showing his true colours before he set foot in Canada. The Canadian Government in all its wisdom :ermm: says that he is your responsibility. Once he has landed at the airport in Canada, even if he never sets foot in your house, but just disappears, well if he goes on assistance after that, you get to pay that back.
Yes it sucks that you're married and can't just walk away, but at least it hasn't come to him being in Canada, so I agree with Anna. If you're having doubts now, stop the process and see what happens.
I can't imagine that once he gets here, when there would be an actual reason for culture shock, a feeling of isolation and depression that it will get any better and if you think he asks for money now, how will you feel when he has to be totally reliant upon you?
Good Luck
Good point
This is why Canadian girls are the preferred choice among Dominican men. Bar none! The sad thing is people such as this OP that find out only after it is too late. Well, it is never too late. He isn't there yet so cancel his arse.
This is why Canadian girls are the preferred choice among Dominican men. Bar none! The sad thing is people such as this OP that find out only after it is too late. Well, it is never too late. He isn't there yet so cancel his arse.
He asks you for MONEY?? Please listen to your good friends here and call, fax and write the Canadian Embassy in Port au Prince at once!!!
tell them you have been deceived and that you will not sponsor this person. Never, ever talk to him again. There are tons of people here that can make you happy, for a few days at least....
Really, never get mixed up with someone that is not at your educational lever. your financial level (even if it is in pesos) and your "savoir faire" level....
These guys are experts at getting into your heart (among other things like pocketbooks and credit cards, and yeah, that, too!)
Better be safe or really, really sorry!!
HB
tell them you have been deceived and that you will not sponsor this person. Never, ever talk to him again. There are tons of people here that can make you happy, for a few days at least....
Really, never get mixed up with someone that is not at your educational lever. your financial level (even if it is in pesos) and your "savoir faire" level....
These guys are experts at getting into your heart (among other things like pocketbooks and credit cards, and yeah, that, too!)
Better be safe or really, really sorry!!
HB
Indeed!
I can already see her accepting his excuses. Excuses that sound or will sound like this:
"Ay mami, I am acting like this because I miss you too much" or
"Pero mi amor, don't you know that it's because I love you too much" or
"Cielo, I just can't be without you for such a long time" or
"Chula, I am not like this, not seeing you is making me act like this" or
"Querida, you are my life and without you, I am lost and then I get like this" or my personal favorite::::::
"Mami linda, it's because it's taking too long for me be with you over there, you know I am not like this, so if you hurry up and I get me there sooner than later, everything will be back to normal, ok mami".
Make believe that you are Carl Lewis and RUUUUUUUUUN away from that guy as fast as you can!!.
The thing is that she is not seeing his true colors, which are more "colors" than a normal person needs to send this guy to go fry some platanos and get lost!.
I can already see her accepting his excuses. Excuses that sound or will sound like this:
"Ay mami, I am acting like this because I miss you too much" or
"Pero mi amor, don't you know that it's because I love you too much" or
"Cielo, I just can't be without you for such a long time" or
"Chula, I am not like this, not seeing you is making me act like this" or
"Querida, you are my life and without you, I am lost and then I get like this" or my personal favorite::::::
"Mami linda, it's because it's taking too long for me be with you over there, you know I am not like this, so if you hurry up and I get me there sooner than later, everything will be back to normal, ok mami".
Make believe that you are Carl Lewis and RUUUUUUUUUN away from that guy as fast as you can!!.
Correction buddy!!!!
Come on Miguel, you know that Carl Lewis wasn't clean, he was on steriods like Ben Johnson, another cheater (like the one mentioned in this thread). Donovan did it the natural way, oh did I mention he's Canadian
That should be Donovan Bailey.
Come on Miguel, you know that Carl Lewis wasn't clean, he was on steriods like Ben Johnson, another cheater (like the one mentioned in this thread). Donovan did it the natural way, oh did I mention he's Canadian
The moment she will threaten to terminate his immigration process to canada he will become Mr. nice guy again and our desperate candian women will forgive him.
She is in trouble and she will not back down. Watch she will follow her heart and get hurt.
AZB
She is in trouble and she will not back down. Watch she will follow her heart and get hurt.
AZB
HB puts it best
Experts.....like brain surgeons without the educational level of course. They have lazer like precision to get into your heart, tickle those emotional strings that you possess. Hey, everyone wants to be loved and understood and nobody is knocking you (or shouldn't be knocking you). You identified the problem and it isn't too late. Listen (read) to what these fine people are telling (writing to) you. The man is a predator, you weren't the first we are all sure and you certainly will not be the last. Simply write to the Canadian Embassy and write it in bold letters. You were deceived, the man is a thief and you want to stop the process NOW. Then what you must also do is cut the trewp off. Change your number and DO NOT answer him. He will try and try and try to pull on your heart strings. What other choice does he have? He has come so close and will not give up now. Tell him you are one of the many in DR1.
Good luck and God Bless
Scotty
Experts.....like brain surgeons without the educational level of course. They have lazer like precision to get into your heart, tickle those emotional strings that you possess. Hey, everyone wants to be loved and understood and nobody is knocking you (or shouldn't be knocking you). You identified the problem and it isn't too late. Listen (read) to what these fine people are telling (writing to) you. The man is a predator, you weren't the first we are all sure and you certainly will not be the last. Simply write to the Canadian Embassy and write it in bold letters. You were deceived, the man is a thief and you want to stop the process NOW. Then what you must also do is cut the trewp off. Change your number and DO NOT answer him. He will try and try and try to pull on your heart strings. What other choice does he have? He has come so close and will not give up now. Tell him you are one of the many in DR1.
Good luck and God Bless
Scotty
LOL...heck yeah
Tell him he only gets (sex) on odd days and on even days you will sleep with your other boyfriend. Oh and another thing, tell him he needs to wear a condom and that he needs to "pleasure" you. LOL, that really should do it.
That ought to do it!
Tell him he only gets (sex) on odd days and on even days you will sleep with your other boyfriend. Oh and another thing, tell him he needs to wear a condom and that he needs to "pleasure" you. LOL, that really should do it.
I have a question. Every few days or so somebody posts about the man they met in the DR and have questions/concerns/problems. Now, if these ladies went down on vacation- did they not do any research before going? They would have read about these men.
Think about it. NOW THEY FIND DR1??? NOW?
I find it hard to believe just about 99.9% of these posts. Personally, I believe a lot of these stories are made up. But, I have to admit. I do read them- kinda like watching a soap opera or novella, whatever you want to call it.
ALL of my experiences with Dominican men have been with those who have moved to Texas, and maybe they learned to immerse themselves into the culture. They have all treated me with respect when my Dominican husband is present and even when he isn't. But, I can see that when some hoochie is around- their attitudes change.
I am sure a whole lot of the "sankie thing" goes on down there. I guess what I am saying is that these women who go down there are getting just what they were looking for. They can't be that stupid and innocent.
Think about it. NOW THEY FIND DR1??? NOW?
I find it hard to believe just about 99.9% of these posts. Personally, I believe a lot of these stories are made up. But, I have to admit. I do read them- kinda like watching a soap opera or novella, whatever you want to call it.
ALL of my experiences with Dominican men have been with those who have moved to Texas, and maybe they learned to immerse themselves into the culture. They have all treated me with respect when my Dominican husband is present and even when he isn't. But, I can see that when some hoochie is around- their attitudes change.
I am sure a whole lot of the "sankie thing" goes on down there. I guess what I am saying is that these women who go down there are getting just what they were looking for. They can't be that stupid and innocent.
why does it sound so soooooooooo funny but when their only one ideal dominican says it it seems so.. right?
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