Me and a friend of mine had the little invite a friend trick played on us once. We were gonna take some girls out to the beach and the one he was with wanted to bring a friend, we were new to the island so they probably took us for suckers. I admit we were a bit naive at first. We went to a restaraunt mind you, not McDonalds or Taco Bell, more of an Applebee's or Bennigans type place (sorry if some don't know these places) Not to impress the girls but just because we were tired of fast food. The friend orders frickin lobster!!!!! He didn't speak spanish and I only speak a little bit so lobster wasn't in my vocabulary at the time. I had been out with the girl I was with a few times and she was sitting there cracking up, I mean just laughing away. We knew what was going on but nobody said anything. We get our food and my friend is so mad because his girl invited the "friend" so it's all on him. He wanted to eat the lobster himself but he's allergic to seafood. After she eats she has the nerve to order a Pinacolada! I told her she can have a pinaco-nada or maybe a pinacon-agua but not a pinacolada. I had to step in because I wasn't gonna let my boy go out like that. And the girl he was with was being a bitch ( I wouldn't say it if it wasn't true)
I helped him out on the bill because like I said I couldn't let him go out like that. We finally made it to the beach and the "friend" says she is meeting her boyfriend or somebody there. We were like oh heeelll no!! We are not feeding you so you can go running off with some other dude, we don't know you like that. So we made her go get the money from her boyfriend to pay for her food. My friend and the girl he was with were making ugly faces at each other so I took her and her friend back home and came back and enjoyed the rest of the night with the girl I was with.
Some girls will try to play you. Some guys play girls as well.
Most of the descriptions are one side or the other though, either the guy is being extremly sweet or beating the girl up. Either the girl is someone like the mom on "Leave it to Beaver" always has dinner on the table, make up always perfect, hair always in place, never complaining and always sort of submissive, or she is un puta. Isn't there a medium here, I think you can be mister nice guy but know when to put the foot down. I like a nice girl but I like a little bit of a freak too. You have to give a little and take a little. Something too sweet looses it's appeal, as does something too sour, find something just right and you will crave for the flavor.
While us guys brag and boast about running through women like fire through a haystack. I think some of these girls may be enjoying the live just as much as we are. They don't have to be tied down to some over bearing brut, telling her what to do, what to wear, when to come or when to go. We might think we are the bomb in the bedroom but in actuality she thinks you are a firecracker witha short fuse. As bad as we talk about women, they talk about us, and it would really hurt some of our feelings to know what is being said. I'm just trying to be real, so don't get me wrong. You live and you learn.