Thank You!!!!!! I knew somewhere out there someone would understand why I wrote to DR1. I had been watching it for over 6 months and saw how kind some people were and I figured maybe a few people could come up with things that I do not know or do not realize. It is very hard as some of you know trying to get things done through the DR. I really came here to get help and information not to bad mouth my husband. I have nothing but good things to say about the people who responded. They might not all have agreed with me but they took time to show interest and that means alot. The reply Villa Trina wrote made my night and of course Mr. Hillbilly has been ever so helpful. Sometimes just being able to discuss this with other people helps. Makes one feel not so alone. Thank you so very much.