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Security or Beauty?
I think for those women, in order to be considered a possible suitor, you might have to be able to provide an equal or greater lifestyle than the one they enjoyed with their current family situation. If you come in with a $5/day budget and she's been used to $500, I doubt that you'll have a chance there. But if you can match or do better than that, you might be in there....but I think you might have to have some looks too. If she's already doing well, she has options.
AND TO THIS yes I believe you, you thank goodness were lucky to find yourself a good man, good in many different ways, as you have described him. but many are not so lucky and that's why the insecurity of settling for less sometimes. My next time around I know I won't settle for less.
What is 'less' M.A.R.?
For me, seriously, I do want an attractive woman but someone that is crazy about me.
That is my concern. The honeymoon will end right quick but if they really don't find me reall shmexy then I'd be crushed.
I can put up with an aweful lot but not that.
For me, seriously, I do want an attractive woman but someone that is crazy about me.
That is my concern. The honeymoon will end right quick but if they really don't find me reall shmexy then I'd be crushed.
I can put up with an aweful lot but not that.
Y el Senor Maco....
Oh the insanity.....
OK, last "off topic" from me. Perhaps.....
jrf:
Would you rather have a good looking "zero a la izquerda" or an ok looking independent " I know want I want from life" type of woman?.
Jejejejeje. You forgot mountainfrog and Chucky..... What a shame someone "made" potato salad out of "Potato Salad", hahaha!.A chick thread? Wow that'll be a three way conversation between Miguel AZB and Shad :laugh:
sorry jrf I'm off again but in my defense I think I was born this way
Oh the insanity.....
OK, last "off topic" from me. Perhaps.....
jrf:
Would you rather have a good looking "zero a la izquerda" or an ok looking independent " I know want I want from life" type of woman?.
Well, see that's just it, JRF. I was stating in an earlier post, if I am not attracted to a guy physically, when the relationship gets a little rocky or if the guy crosses me the wrong way I will work a little less hard to work things out with him than I would with someone who I'm physically attracted to. I think that's the chance that you take. But, I think you will generally know if someone is physically attracted to you. People are good actors but certain things you can just kinda tell about if you are around them long enough.
Anna - me either it's been far too long...I miss it so much I gotta joke about it or I end up crying in my cornflakes.
Miguel - the o.k. looking independant woman - and if she was with me I would know that she chose me for me.
Shad - hmm tough question at the moment ...
Suitelady - true it is a chance you take and I do think that I can tell if someone is being genuine or not. That is why I think it is best to wait.
You come to the island of paradise and there are so many good looking women you lose sense and sight of your mind.
Truth be told I'm almost as scared commiting here as I am there but I really do want to be with a woman from the RD. (Dominicana o Haitiana)
Miguel - the o.k. looking independant woman - and if she was with me I would know that she chose me for me.
Shad - hmm tough question at the moment ...
Suitelady - true it is a chance you take and I do think that I can tell if someone is being genuine or not. That is why I think it is best to wait.
You come to the island of paradise and there are so many good looking women you lose sense and sight of your mind.
Truth be told I'm almost as scared commiting here as I am there but I really do want to be with a woman from the RD. (Dominicana o Haitiana)
Yup yup I hear ya Shad.
Just haven't found the right one yet - but I do believe I am ready for a woman in my life.
I just feel I really want to be with someone from another culture. It seems to me it would be a great way to start over. I know there are more differences as far as culture and language but I think the part of really getting to know eachother as opposed to digging up eachothers past and seeing if we can live with it.
I have the impression that RD women are less concerned with the past and more about who/what you are today and may be in the future.
Just haven't found the right one yet - but I do believe I am ready for a woman in my life.
I just feel I really want to be with someone from another culture. It seems to me it would be a great way to start over. I know there are more differences as far as culture and language but I think the part of really getting to know eachother as opposed to digging up eachothers past and seeing if we can live with it.
I have the impression that RD women are less concerned with the past and more about who/what you are today and may be in the future.
Sounds like the only thing left for you to do is get out there and meet some women with your eyes open. Who knows what might happen. Stay positive.
IT can only happen if she opens IT .... his eyes are irrelevant for IT to happen. :bunny:
Shad, you crazy man you! Leave this man alone! The world is your oyster, Jrf! Don't be afraid, just be careful.
Whatever you do man, don't take advice form a woman. Your strategy should be 'hit and run' .... since this is Super Bowl weekend, a better analogy is 'quick short passes'. In this way, you have a better chance to increase your success rate. Just get it and move on to the next target. And remember, don't listen to any woman, they're all NOW members. :bunny:
National Organization for Women ... their mandate is world domination for women. All women are automatically members and can be called upon to usurp the existing power structure in society ... which is men in charge of everything, it worked good so far, so I don't understand why NOW wants to change things. :ermm:
shad...you will get 20 lashes NOW (pun intended) for EXPLAINING to a woman what N.O.W. is......
besides I am almost sure NOW is not allowed in the DR....
just guive them enough freedom to get to the burning of the bras part then hold them in check
bob
besides I am almost sure NOW is not allowed in the DR....
just guive them enough freedom to get to the burning of the bras part then hold them in check
bob
Actually Bob they all know about NOW ... they are indoctrinated at a very young age. New NOW members are recruited in restaurant bathrooms ... now you know why men aren't allowed there and they go with other women. Btw, do I get the lashes from a NOW member with no bra? :ermm: