Man, there's a lot here i do not understand, but i'm slow, so i want to apologize right off the bat for my lack of comprehension.
In trying to be a good matchmaker, are you not just helping to facilitate cheap, overweight, down-on-their-luck, barely employable, socially inept, ghetto speaking Americans--who barely know how to tie their shoes or put on a condom correctly--to meet mostly uneducated--but not entirely stupid--Dominican females, whom, if they are beautiful--already have men abroad sending them money through Western Union and trying to court them.
Many of these beautiful Dominican females already have Dominican and Expats males taking them out. Beautiful Dominican women--of which i count myself one of them when i'm in my best drag outfit-- are not sitting at home all night watching the paint dry. We're beautiful...well, ok, some of us are only mildly attractive, but we are constantly being pursued, constantly recieving text messages, and consistently "Hedging their Bets" with male suitors. Attractive women here are not sitting at home sewing and ironing all night.
Everyone here is in front of the mirror pruning and prepping and getting ready to go out and meet people they have already been in contact with before any of us have woken up. This is a social society on this island, and people here, women in particular, are well adept at socializing and meeting men. They do not need anyone's help. These are NOT office workers here sitting behind a cubicle from 9 to 5, staring at a computer monitor all day, wondering what life is like beyond the windows and walls. Beautiful women are out socializing an being pursued. I can hardly get into my drag outfit without recieving 20 text messages every half hour.
However, i understand the facilitating aspect on the American male's part, where, for a variety of reasons, they need help in meeting women. Let's face it, some are overweight, some do not know how to speak, and instead grunt and make caveman-like sounds; many are socially incurable, fashionally incurable, grammatically illiterate, functionally incapacitated, and for lack of a better word: totally and chronically unemployable! Many are alcoholics, some are hard drug users, many are in chronic debt and do not know how to budget one single dollar; several do not know a second language, or think ghetto talk qualifies as a second language; and many outright refuse to try and learn spanish.
I'm sorry, most of these hook-ups or meetings will end in complete disaster. These men coming down here are not Richard Gere from Pretty Women, looking to sweep some dominican beauty off their feet, or off some computer screen and take them home to meet mom and dad. No, on the contrary, many of the men--but certainly not most--are just looking to get laid. Period. And they're simply looking to use your Hook-up service as a sort of 'Glorified meat market" to help them choose an FDA certified Grade A meat that they're hoping to catch.
In other words, the truly rich ones--the truly good male catches coming down here, are not interested in coming down here to look for a wife and sweep them off their feet. The ones filling that role are already walking up and down the streets of Sosua and Boca Chica in tank tops and muscle shirts with their bellys hanging down; many of them are functionally illiterate, very sleazy (Ok, I'm sleazy too), socially inept, and not a fine catch by any stretch of the imagination.
Do i think there is money to be made here...possibly. Do i think it's an ethically good business to be in? I don't know. I certainly wouldn't want to do it. I already get to sit at a bar on the beach and listen to, and watch drunk male tourists and expats--who couldn't court, nor pick up a drunk donkey with a lasso around its neck--try and pick up good looking dominican women--but end up with a bar hooker instead, becuase, well, let's face it...if they were such a good catch to begin with, why are they down here hanging out at Bambu until 3am in the morning, looking for virgins to take back to their hotel room?
Frank
