Thank you all for your wonderful posts. I found them all very helpful. I plan to use some of those ideas to "check into things." I can say that we work together so we actually already know a lot of the same people and have some common friends, he always pays when we go to dinner, I have tried on 3 occassions to pick up the tab but he just wont let me. I also know that he does have two children as a result of a marriage that is terminated. We have not gone out dancing yet, however that isnt because he hasnt wanted to. I have been physically unable to do that since about a week after we started dating because of a surgery. I will be good to go dancing in about 2 weeks!! Now he claims not to have a home phone only a cell, I know that is troublesome and while I havent actually been to his house yet he did tell me where he lives so really I could stop over at any time and probably should. Anyway not to bore everyone with another long post I will just take everyone's good advice and see what I discover. Thanks again for all of the wonderful feedback, what a great bunch of people on here
