I think that rather than psychoanalyzing the OP we should give him the benefit of the doubt and assume that his perceptions are accurate. There is a certain amount of very rude people here; they might be in the minority but they do exist and they will do and say things which would never fly back in the states.
Here are some possible reasons:
1. You and your wife have a very large age difference (e.g. 30 years).
2. You are white and your wife is dark.
For the first 2 reasons their minds go to the gutter and assume that it is a relationship based upon money and sex.
3. You have money and they don?t. Jealousy plain and simple.
4. Liberal revisionism while not as strong as in America does exist here. Thus, hatred of whites and Europeans as colonizers and exploiters does exist.
now i am interested in this discussion. i want to hear more about liberal revisionism. fire away, mongoose.