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She's an "Instagram Influencer."
She's an "Instagram Influencer."
When it rains, it pours.
"Tourist returns from nightmare Dominican Republic trip: ‘Just don’t go’ "
https://nypost.com/2019/06/12/tourist-returns-from-nightmare-dominican-republic-trip-just-dont-go/
I understand your point of view perfectly. I decided, (my wife was never enthousiastic to move to the DR from the beginning), to leave the country when one night I shot with our caliber 12 just over our wall to deter a bunch of guys approaching our house. I thought, I better shoot now than when they climb over the wall, then I will kill them.No not at all . I just see it for what it is . I've had very few problems here . But I attribute that to the fact that i'm not living free and enjoying my life as I should here . I'd love to walk the malecon sip a coffee watch the stars at night . ETC. Not going to happen here . I'm a pretty big guy . I'm not easily intimidated . But Ladrones being what they are 3 , 4 at a time with a stolen pistol , or machettes not one man is a match . I just see a better life for myself and family . Believe me , I WAS the DR's biggest fan . I am just tired of having to pay the prices here for paradise . I'd like to say I'd come back to visit but , for what ? Where ? To an all inclusive ? More of the same if not worse . I guess I just can't see having 5 dogs , a pistol , shotgun and hiding in the house at night , eyes in front and back for thieves and robbers and crooked cops . , as opposed to being able to walk relatively free . There are many places one can enjoy the beaches and flora and fauna , without the heavy price we're all paying here . My feelings . Not trying to sway anyone from THEY'RE D.R. dream .
When it rains, it pours.
"Tourist returns from nightmare Dominican Republic trip: ‘Just don’t go’ "
https://nypost.com/2019/06/12/tourist-returns-from-nightmare-dominican-republic-trip-just-dont-go/
aka spoiled millennial drama queen
Actually she is reporting a very accurate picture of what the experience of being a woman traveler in the Dominican Republic is like.
I was there for 14 years. I am far from a Millenial - having arrived when I was 55.
Because I was already an experience world traveler - was intending to actually move and live there - had being having a 6 months correspondence with an American that I had met via a connection here on DR1 and had been reading this web page - Plus had the lending hand of the venerable and beloved Ginnie Bedgood... I was OK -
I moved first to Las Terrenas - and stayed for 2 years...
Certainly the amount of cat calls & propositions sent me back to the old days of NYC - from the construction workers in the 70s. Finally I had to make a very public stand at the Moto Concho Stand - with my umbrella in the chest of one of the young drivers. I was doing volunteer teaching at one of the local schools.
I stuck the point of the umbrella in his chest and explained in a loud voice - in Spanish - that I was old enough to be his Grandmother- that I was a teacher - and that I expected to be treated with respect.
I never had any trouble again.
With some empathy to the concho guys - there were lots of single women in Las Terrenas who traveled there explicitly for that sort of attention (See the movie "Vers Le Sud" which was filmed there - although supposedly about Haiti).
When I moved to the Capital, I once went out for a walk on the Malecon in a dress which was a perfectly respectable summer dress - but clearly too form fitting and flouncy for the DR. I had cat calls, cars stopping - etc.. The dress got relegated to the back of the closet for evening wear only.
My sister, while visiting, in broad daylight, walking in Gazcue right across from the PLD HQ was attacked in an attempt to have her handbag, which was a shoulder bag, slug around her back, taken.The attacker pulled her to the ground. The police came quite quickly and she was not hurt. But-- well-- safe?? Not so much.
I know another woman who had a gold necklace - just a chain with a cross- nothing flashy - ripped from her neck outside the Episcopal Church on Independcia.
A Black woman that I knew from the Embassy and another Black woman who was studying at a university complained quite bitterly about how they were always addressed as "Negro"
My Haitian friend - when she worn her hair naturally - had constant finger pointing and comments of "feo- feo" - (I am sure that most folks are aware of the "pelo bueno- peso Malo" distinction.
I have gleaned from some posters on this Board that the DR used to be a place where foreigners were treated with great respect. This is simply no longer the case.
We are, for the most part, treated as "marks" for one purpose or another.
I learned how to navigate the country. I traveled around via bus, guagua, motoconcho and never felt unsafe.
As a journalist, however, I was cautious since I was often closely followed. I had more than one death threat. I always made an effort to find stories that could paint the DR in a positive light. While I did often write about the plight of the Haitians in the DR, I made an effort to put the issue into historical context - with the help from many members on this Board who informed me of facts that were not available in English print.
In the end, I told my editor in NY that there were only two stories left to write about - Cocaine and Corruption - and - while I had alluded to them- I could not actually write either story without being deported. So I returned to the USA.
I do not blame the Dominicans for the level of insecurity there as much as I blame the foreigners (and DomYorks) who have come there to exploit the people who are there-- for the sex tourists, the cocaine traffickers,the foreign business owners who exploit the locals (really? An international shipping company paying a completely bilingual college graduate $500 a month for full time work? really?), the money launderers.
But it is BEYOND time that the reality of life in the DR be exposed for what it is.
Even Puerto Rico and St Croix are dangerous islands.
The Bahamas - Hawaii - Key West - Those are the places that Americans can go for their safe/secure/untroubled "Islands in the Sun"
(Perhaps there are others still - I adored my year in Grenada - and Barbados and Tortola are gorgeous - probably ditto Turks and Caicos -- etc.. etc.. but most middle budget travelers who are drawn to the DR will not be able to afford those islands-- they certainly would not be able to afford Martinique/Guadeloupe.)
ya gets what ya pay for
Actually she is reporting a very accurate picture of what the experience of being a woman traveler in the Dominican Republic is like.
I was there for 14 years. I am far from a Millenial - having arrived when I was 55.
Because I was already an experience world traveler - was intending to actually move and live there - had being having a 6 months correspondence with an American that I had met via a connection here on DR1 and had been reading this web page - Plus had the lending hand of the venerable and beloved Ginnie Bedgood... I was OK -
I moved first to Las Terrenas - and stayed for 2 years...
Certainly the amount of cat calls & propositions sent me back to the old days of NYC - from the construction workers in the 70s. Finally I had to make a very public stand at the Moto Concho Stand - with my umbrella in the chest of one of the young drivers. I was doing volunteer teaching at one of the local schools.
I stuck the point of the umbrella in his chest and explained in a loud voice - in Spanish - that I was old enough to be his Grandmother- that I was a teacher - and that I expected to be treated with respect.
I never had any trouble again.
With some empathy to the concho guys - there were lots of single women in Las Terrenas who traveled there explicitly for that sort of attention (See the movie "Vers Le Sud" which was filmed there - although supposedly about Haiti).
When I moved to the Capital, I once went out for a walk on the Malecon in a dress which was a perfectly respectable summer dress - but clearly too form fitting and flouncy for the DR. I had cat calls, cars stopping - etc.. The dress got relegated to the back of the closet for evening wear only.
My sister, while visiting, in broad daylight, walking in Gazcue right across from the PLD HQ was attacked in an attempt to have her handbag, which was a shoulder bag, slug around her back, taken.The attacker pulled her to the ground. The police came quite quickly and she was not hurt. But-- well-- safe?? Not so much.
I know another woman who had a gold necklace - just a chain with a cross- nothing flashy - ripped from her neck outside the Episcopal Church on Independcia.
A Black woman that I knew from the Embassy and another Black woman who was studying at a university complained quite bitterly about how they were always addressed as "Negro"
My Haitian friend - when she worn her hair naturally - had constant finger pointing and comments of "feo- feo" - (I am sure that most folks are aware of the "pelo bueno- peso Malo" distinction.
I have gleaned from some posters on this Board that the DR used to be a place where foreigners were treated with great respect. This is simply no longer the case.
We are, for the most part, treated as "marks" for one purpose or another.
I learned how to navigate the country. I traveled around via bus, guagua, motoconcho and never felt unsafe.
As a journalist, however, I was cautious since I was often closely followed. I had more than one death threat. I always made an effort to find stories that could paint the DR in a positive light. While I did often write about the plight of the Haitians in the DR, I made an effort to put the issue into historical context - with the help from many members on this Board who informed me of facts that were not available in English print.
In the end, I told my editor in NY that there were only two stories left to write about - Cocaine and Corruption - and - while I had alluded to them- I could not actually write either story without being deported. So I returned to the USA.
I do not blame the Dominicans for the level of insecurity there as much as I blame the foreigners (and DomYorks) who have come there to exploit the people who are there-- for the sex tourists, the cocaine traffickers,the foreign business owners who exploit the locals (really? An international shipping company paying a completely bilingual college graduate $500 a month for full time work? really?), the money launderers.
But it is BEYOND time that the reality of life in the DR be exposed for what it is.
Even Puerto Rico and St Croix are dangerous islands.
The Bahamas - Hawaii - Key West - Those are the places that Americans can go for their safe/secure/untroubled "Islands in the Sun"
(Perhaps there are others still - I adored my year in Grenada - and Barbados and Tortola are gorgeous - probably ditto Turks and Caicos -- etc.. etc.. but most middle budget travelers who are drawn to the DR will not be able to afford those islands-- they certainly would not be able to afford Martinique/Guadeloupe.)
ya gets what ya pay for