Cool, to each his own. I to love Sosua and enjoy it several times a month with the fellas. However I would never expose my family to the town especially at night, too many other options. Further, no Dominican chica I know has any interest in going to Sosua, day or night. Not for dinner, shopping or the beach.
I agree completely, hardly any of my Dominican friends will come to Sosua, and I can't blame them. We go to Puerto Plata or wherever else they're comfortable to hang out with them (some don't even like to be seen on the Malecon, it's not just Sosua, it's any area with too many tourists, which attracts working girls). That's sad and I hope it changes some day. A woman shouldn't be judged just because she's in Sosua (just for having a drink, working as a waitress, whatever), but unfortunately there are too many that think "every woman in Sosua is available", that's simply not true. Unfortunately, most people are judgmental and assume stuff all day long.
My girlfriend and I get judged constantly ... but luckily, she got past all that (for the most part) and we get to enjoy "my Sosua"
My Sosua has great chef's from all around the world (they were good enough that they were able to open their own places in DR), where you can eat amazing meals for the price of a burger back home, the chef will usually come to your table and chat, ask you how it was, serve you a mamajuana ... my Sosua has everything I need on vacation (grocery store, bank, money exchange, pharmacy, beaches, shopping, more bars and restaurants than I could ever fit into 20 trips, etc) ... my Sosua has an amazing beach with bar owners from all over, I have met so many people (owners, workers, customers) from so many countries ... I love the diversity.
Do I spend all my time in Sosua, of course not, but it's a great "home base" when you only have a week or so and you're trying to get to so many places ... it has easy access to publicos that run 24 hours to Cabarete or Puerto Plata or wherever, Metro bus to Santiago (Aguilas!) and all kinds of other cheap transportation options.
I love the north coast and how you can travel a short distance and get completely different vibes!