Need some DR experience here for I have no clue what people can arrange in borrowing money..Meaning, Contract killings, Mafia ties, etc, because something stinks here!!
Okay, my girl borrowed some money after he EX of 8 Years split on her taking everything with him, but of course left her to pay all debts. How does a woman do that being alone and only earning so much per Month, you know the deal here in the DR, 10,000 a Month or 30,000 at best in most cases. So, She borrowed some money long before we got together. She agreed to pay 4,000 a Month, but there is interest attached to this..No idea how its figured in, but of course its 4,000!! Meaning, she pays 4,000 and nothing hits the so called principal.. This so called friend will follow her to the ATM in making sure she gets her money..Or if not, she will call and call, I'm serious, the calls do not stop until she answers...Now, my girl happens to be the President Executive Secretary at her job, oversees about 15 other workers, so really, she is this girl's boss.
However, This girl will make a scene on the job every time if my Girl is late with her money..Its very , very stressful for her..As of now, my girl has paid 14,000 over what was owed, should be done with and I don't care any longer what agreement they had, where's the paper/contract, natta!! was all verbal! if this was a dude, I would have gone there to see how my size 14 shoe fit his arse! I advised my girl to go to her boss and explain what's going on...I would not accept this behavior in my department for one second! OUT you go...
So, I don't know how I can help her here..I want some damn peace in my home for a change for we have been going through a lot lately..Nothing wrong with us as a couple, just many issues..If this was some what of the beginning, then I would just pay it off to the amount that was borrowed period, nothing more..But again, its past the amount that was borrowed by 14,000!! Enough is enough! and just so you know, I really don't want to mention names here in case you're wondering why I wrote this as I did..
All that said, can my girl be in trouble here?? She gets very nervous when she cannot pay this SOB on time, just very strange and I'm sick of seeing her that way..What would you do if this was your wife or girlfriend? Are there Shark Lenders here? Maybe this person is afilated with one, how and where did she get the money to lend comes to my mind.. I just don't know, hoping some of you has some knowledge on a few possibilities. I just don't see this as a friend lending her money, hard to say...
Thank You
Skynet
Okay, my girl borrowed some money after he EX of 8 Years split on her taking everything with him, but of course left her to pay all debts. How does a woman do that being alone and only earning so much per Month, you know the deal here in the DR, 10,000 a Month or 30,000 at best in most cases. So, She borrowed some money long before we got together. She agreed to pay 4,000 a Month, but there is interest attached to this..No idea how its figured in, but of course its 4,000!! Meaning, she pays 4,000 and nothing hits the so called principal.. This so called friend will follow her to the ATM in making sure she gets her money..Or if not, she will call and call, I'm serious, the calls do not stop until she answers...Now, my girl happens to be the President Executive Secretary at her job, oversees about 15 other workers, so really, she is this girl's boss.
However, This girl will make a scene on the job every time if my Girl is late with her money..Its very , very stressful for her..As of now, my girl has paid 14,000 over what was owed, should be done with and I don't care any longer what agreement they had, where's the paper/contract, natta!! was all verbal! if this was a dude, I would have gone there to see how my size 14 shoe fit his arse! I advised my girl to go to her boss and explain what's going on...I would not accept this behavior in my department for one second! OUT you go...
So, I don't know how I can help her here..I want some damn peace in my home for a change for we have been going through a lot lately..Nothing wrong with us as a couple, just many issues..If this was some what of the beginning, then I would just pay it off to the amount that was borrowed period, nothing more..But again, its past the amount that was borrowed by 14,000!! Enough is enough! and just so you know, I really don't want to mention names here in case you're wondering why I wrote this as I did..
All that said, can my girl be in trouble here?? She gets very nervous when she cannot pay this SOB on time, just very strange and I'm sick of seeing her that way..What would you do if this was your wife or girlfriend? Are there Shark Lenders here? Maybe this person is afilated with one, how and where did she get the money to lend comes to my mind.. I just don't know, hoping some of you has some knowledge on a few possibilities. I just don't see this as a friend lending her money, hard to say...
Thank You
Skynet