Weird thread, IMO. Invectives, highly charged verbage, puns and diatribes.
Lindita, oftentimes we like to have fun with new posters, especially a self-assured young woman such as yourself. Just a few guidelines, if you will permit this hillbilly, the old curmudegeon of this BB to assist you a wee bit.
Just use one language, it is safer. Generally speaking, we prefer English. If something must be said in another language, for emphasis perhaps, you might use a quick translation to help the other folks.
Feminism is barely tolerated on the board by a few of our posters, and it is championed by several others. Take anything posted with lots of salt. It seems that self deprecation is tolerated much more than narcisistic self enhancement. Let time work it's magic. Most of the posters have many years of experience in the Dominican Republic. Some are knowledgeable about the Republic of Haiti. There are some folks that have a serious problem with the Haitian migration into the Dominican Republic. That is fine. There are people in the USA that don't like Mexicans walking over the border, either. Happens.
Learn to relax....if you can contribute to our fund of knowledge, by all means, please do so, and it will be well received, I am sure.
Cordially
HB