Yes it IS very different from 12 years ago, or even 14 years ago when I first visited. I still wouldn't leave, though. My partner & I discussed what would make us leave, this was last February, when we thought Hippo was going to steal the election, or do something like Bush's first term. We concluded that if Hippo had another 4 years, the DR would go the way of Haiti, structurally, (that isn't an insult to Haitians, so please don't misread me) & the inevitable result would be that it would become unsafe to go to the shops for food etc.That would have been our point for leaving........when it became physically unsafe to stay. Now, it feels very different to me, much more on the up, despite the problems & there are huge ones.
I agree with stig, johnsenior, if you are in a low frame of mind, don't make a decision. But I don't get the impression you're in a low frame of mind, more that something is missing. And you find that something when you're here. I can relate to that. That's why I wouldn't leave.
And sweetdbt, add in another 5000 a month for the 'unexpected'.......being the DR the unexpected tends to happen. If you don't use it, it goes towards your airfare savings.
Finally, snuffy, I didn't mean to offend using the term 'stupid foreigner'. I don't see it as stupid that you're trying to help people, I do too, & I'm not going to admit to being stupid, now, am I? All I meant is that my 'giving' is an action over which I have control, whereas others 'taking' is an action over which I wouldn't have any say. And, let's face it, if people give out vibes that they are a bit wet behind the ears, they will get scammed. That is not peculiarly Dominican.
Sorry to lump everyone in one post, the thread obviously got active while I was away. Good thing though....sweetdbt wouldn't have wanted a dialogue or even trialogue!