LOL, yeah let someone have the job that really wants it.I think we are wasting our time. sking is coming here.
welcome back.
AZB
LOL, yeah let someone have the job that really wants it.
Thinking with your heart gets you into the kind of trouble that thinking with your head could have kept you out of.
I am sorry, but if you brought 4 kids into the world without the direct, day-to-day influence of their biological father, you have no business thinking of anything but of THEIR future, period.
To even ~think` of anything else shows you don't have the absolute dedication toward their future and welfare, that somehow YOUR temporal pleasure is more important than THEIR future.
There is NO WAY those kids can get anywhere near the solid, recognized edumacation in the DR they can get in Chapel Hill.
To consider a move to the DR compared to the opportunity in front of you @ UNC is irresponsible.
Harsh? Perhaps. But maybe somebody needs to be...
Really? Possibly.You know nothing.
SHALENA
Really? Possibly.
I only know what you POSTED.
I cannot read your mind. I TRUSTED you presented ALL the facts, but seems like you didn't, except for for your facebook friends.
Maybe next time when looking for validation for a decision YOU ALREADY MADE you just might present ALL the facts before you begin trolling for advice...or validation.
No, I don't know you. Few here do. But from what you've presented here you have made NUMEROUS bad decisions, and documented them on a public forum.
If you wanted advice/validation only from people who KNOW you, couldn't this entire thread have been better managed back-channel? Otherwise, WTF do you expect?
Alot of good posts here. It's funny how alot of you think you know me, and really you know nothing. Those that follow me on Facebook know that I was offered the job almost a month ago, I accepted it on the spot. Duh...
.......Thanks, Lucille, we will see you in person soon because we will be back in Santiago in September. I will probably have a BBQ get together once I'm settled after a couple of months.
SHALENA
Hey guys, I am seeking opinions on my situation so that I may look at all sides. In the end, I will make my own decision but it always helps to hear outside opinions as they may bring up something you never considered or thought of. So, you might say, what's the problem? Everything was fine until I got a call from UNC Hospital in Chapel Hill. I had applied for a Operating Room residency for nurses back in December and they were now interviewing. It is a very intense residency, there were 2 interviews, a week apart and both were 2 hours long. Over 98 nurses interviewed for the 6 open positions. Needless to say, I was offered one of the coveted positions.
I would not even bat an eyelash to turn it down except that this position would send my career soaring and if I took the position, in the future (maybe 3 or 4 years) I could basically move back to DR and be better off financially. SHALENA