Beer and pretzels? lol
A lot also depends on who you are speaking to, as I said before, when in a group, some don't understand me, while others repeat the exact same thing I just said to the ones that don't understand me.
I usually think:
But I just said that!
Don
that's right Don,
it is the same with the "dialects" we have in any language.
some people understand you better and others get a hard time.
in my home country germany,
the one where the beers & bretzels are common,
we speak some so very different dialects that one does not understand an other on some ocassions and at least some get a hard time to understand the neighbour on others. and that's between people of the same country.
sure such is changing over times,
but my parents til today and for the rest of their time speak only our hometown dialect, they understand much but speak very little of the ""official"" German language teached in school.
and the dialect thingy we have in all languages around the globe,
each area has it's own way of pronounciation and specific wordings and in some cases even so hard that a 'good' word in one area maybe a 'bad talking' in an other area, even that the official language of both is the same. like some posters above mentioned that they are more comfo in understanding or get understood in the spanish of some south american country's spanish than in others, it depends the way you learned your own spanish. i read/write/speak/understand/discuss/fight etc spanish here on the Island, at any spot, i feel very comfo with the spanish of til today known colombian friends, i have a very hard time with the Argentinian variation even that i have several argentinian friends down here, i am very comfo with people from spain but i have trouble with several Mexicans on their slang.
but such thingies in case of dialects/slangs are anyways the minor stuff, in the details, the point is to learn spanish in the first place.
i do not see it as a point of respect to the country i visit/live in, i see it as a Need for myself to come around and communicate in what ever situation with who ever maybe involved, without the dependency on a translator or beeing 'fenced off' the neighbourhood i live in.
i would personally not want to live in the neighbourhood of any place anywhere of the planet where i am not a real neighbour/not understood/just an exotic bird for a while or such.
Mike