Thank goodness chain immigration is coming to an end. Entire Dominican families have been uprooted and dropped in NYC and other places because of this. Many areas, especially in rural areas of the Cibao Valley, the original families that lived in certain areas for the past 2, 3, 4 or 5 centuries in the last 30 to 40 years left completely. With completely I’m talking about the entire family, including the extended family members. Add to that the remnants of Cibao families that have most of their family members already living in the USA and they are simply waiting for the visa process to conclude for them to leave too.
If it was people with special skills it would be one thing, but for the most part its people that shouldn’t be leaving a country to move to another one. Many don’t have the needed skills or the inclination to gain the skills needed to advance. From their DR campo and from a very young age they learn what is walfare, “sesion 8”, and all the other handouts given by the US government.
Hooefully this will put a stop or at least reduce to a minimum the madness. It doesn’t matter if the person lives very comfortable with maids, private school education, etc; to feel fully realized the person needs to leave the DR. Staying is equivalent to accepting the person is a loser, even if said person lives better than most Dominicans live not just in the DR but also in the rest of the world. Madness!!!
I remember one time Shaleena (the DR1 member) once asked “what’s wrong to living in the DR” when the topic of middle class Dominicans feeling the need to leave the DR in order to feel their lives are fulfilled, even if it implies a drop in the standards of living or not being able to have certain luxuries such as a maid that would clean the house once or twice a week or permanently. When I read her question I simply smiled and left it like that. I though with more exposure to Dominican thinking she will see it, not necessarily understand it completey but see it.
Its a widespread madness. Too many Dominicans that live well and are unhappy with their lives due to the sole reason of not being able to leave the island permanently.