Regarding your first sentence '...if you have to ask etc etc" I patently disagree. I am very comfortable financially ..i believe that i am wealthy. I have friends who are inordinately wealthy...with plenty of cash to spare. Every one of them and me included can tell you what every single thing they ever purchased cost them. We always ask ; HOW MUCH?" Not because we cant afford it, but because we are assessing the value of that item agains its actual cost. Its why they are rich...because they are watching their monayyyy!!!
Yes i can afford a Cayman, yes i can afford maintenance of 8-12k a year. However, by asking i can decide if i want to pay that, i like to know upfront ...i.e is it worth it?. I dont mind paying money for a new brake kit ; valued at $2 - $3000 ..... i might be cool with that... then i have to pay import tax on top....Im not cool with that. Thats why i ask what things REALLY COST
So your saying wealthy people who can afford a Rolls Royce worries about and ask the cost of a brake job???? Dude you drive a "BOXSTER" with a hard top. You are NOT in the class of Porsche 911 Turbo S owner or an Aston Martin Vanquish.
Can you see an owner of an Aston Martin Vanquish calling around to find a cheap mechanic or trying to find out the cost of an oil change???? Are you serious????
An Aston Martin owner does not say "how much is an oil change" he says " I NEED AN OIL CHANGE"
If you are checking around for the cost of maintenance maybe you are not as "wealthy" as you may think.