Flying out of the Boston airport tomorrow bound for Ashville, NC.
What has most surprised me on this first trip to the US in 10 years is the number of complexes and facilities just for senior citizens. Both in the Chicago area and now in Massachusetts I have seen many aparment and condo buildings for seniors only, and also a number of complexes that take seniors from a single family home or condo to the grave. By that I mean seniors who are active buy a home or a condo, depending on what is available, then at some furture date move first to an apartment, then into managed care, then into a nursing home. I don't recall even hearing about this when I was in the US 10 years ago.
Passing through several areas in Chicago, I even saw signs that said "caution" "seniors" with a figure of a person walking, just like school signs for children.
The sister I am going to visit in Ashville has just purchased a home in one of these complexes, so I'll have a chance to get the feel of the place. But as of now, I don't think I would be comfortable living where you are constantly reminded what a slippery slope we are all on.
In fact, one of the reasons that I haven't gone back to the US for 10 years is that I felt old during the last visit. And now, ten years later, it is even worse. There are old people everywhere; makes me uncomfortable.
I know that sounds strange since I am getting up there in years, but never when in the DR do I feel old or think about age or aging. It is a non-issue in a country where a huge number of people would have happily voted for a 90+ year old blind, infirm man in a recent election had he chosen to have his name on the ballot.
For me, the DR is the fountain of youth and I'm looking forward to getting back and being rejuvinated.
What has most surprised me on this first trip to the US in 10 years is the number of complexes and facilities just for senior citizens. Both in the Chicago area and now in Massachusetts I have seen many aparment and condo buildings for seniors only, and also a number of complexes that take seniors from a single family home or condo to the grave. By that I mean seniors who are active buy a home or a condo, depending on what is available, then at some furture date move first to an apartment, then into managed care, then into a nursing home. I don't recall even hearing about this when I was in the US 10 years ago.
Passing through several areas in Chicago, I even saw signs that said "caution" "seniors" with a figure of a person walking, just like school signs for children.
The sister I am going to visit in Ashville has just purchased a home in one of these complexes, so I'll have a chance to get the feel of the place. But as of now, I don't think I would be comfortable living where you are constantly reminded what a slippery slope we are all on.
In fact, one of the reasons that I haven't gone back to the US for 10 years is that I felt old during the last visit. And now, ten years later, it is even worse. There are old people everywhere; makes me uncomfortable.
I know that sounds strange since I am getting up there in years, but never when in the DR do I feel old or think about age or aging. It is a non-issue in a country where a huge number of people would have happily voted for a 90+ year old blind, infirm man in a recent election had he chosen to have his name on the ballot.
For me, the DR is the fountain of youth and I'm looking forward to getting back and being rejuvinated.