Interesting parallel
So is it the kids or the kids raising the kids?
IMO, kids are to blame for about 0.1%, the rest falls on the parents.
Here in grand ole' USA, the "system" is geared to reward the most ignorant and socially maladjusted people to have more offspring, which leads to the state of affairs we have today.
It's like we're fighting Darwin's theory. The weakest buffalo gets a kevlar vest, the most sex, and stands at the front of the line for handouts.
Unfortunately, it's only going to get worse, with or without Dr. Phil and his absurd made for TV psycho-babble.
Which brings me back to AZB's original post and the opportunity to sprinkle some DR related seeds of wisdom. I'm no world traveler (unless you count Canada?which no one does), and perhaps my senses are skewed, but one thing that really got my attention in my DR-time was how well adjusted kids were. My comparison is, unfortunately, to ugly America so take it for what you will.
I worked with everything from 3rd grade right on through 12th, and I was charmed by the maturity of most. And to re-double my first impression, I spent the next six months after returning to the states working in my old high school. NOT an interesting parallel!
The best, brightest and well-adjusted? Foreign borns.
Russians and Germans were astounding to me. They worked diligently, they went out of their way to help others, and were bright and current enough to engage about anything. Even better, they ask questions beyond "when's this period over, i need to use my cell phone." 1st generation (stateside) Latino's were wonderful to have in class, 2nd and 3rd generation were (darkened) white trash, just like the rest of them.
Something about that "American Dream," once it's realized everyone assumes the work is over. So sad.
And kids are worse than ever; guns, drugs, sex in school?5th grade on.AZB said:In my culture, one can never imagine raising his hands on parents. My father could slap me 100 times, I would never have the courage to raise my hands on him. I remember, My parents never beat me but he did yell at me numerous times, maybe a slap here or there but I don't remember. I was shocked to see in school, kids talking back to teachers. In pakistan, if you did that, you would have gotten your butt kicked by teachers. That was in early 70's. Times sure have changed.
AZB
So is it the kids or the kids raising the kids?
IMO, kids are to blame for about 0.1%, the rest falls on the parents.
Here in grand ole' USA, the "system" is geared to reward the most ignorant and socially maladjusted people to have more offspring, which leads to the state of affairs we have today.
It's like we're fighting Darwin's theory. The weakest buffalo gets a kevlar vest, the most sex, and stands at the front of the line for handouts.
Unfortunately, it's only going to get worse, with or without Dr. Phil and his absurd made for TV psycho-babble.
Which brings me back to AZB's original post and the opportunity to sprinkle some DR related seeds of wisdom. I'm no world traveler (unless you count Canada?which no one does), and perhaps my senses are skewed, but one thing that really got my attention in my DR-time was how well adjusted kids were. My comparison is, unfortunately, to ugly America so take it for what you will.
I worked with everything from 3rd grade right on through 12th, and I was charmed by the maturity of most. And to re-double my first impression, I spent the next six months after returning to the states working in my old high school. NOT an interesting parallel!
The best, brightest and well-adjusted? Foreign borns.
Russians and Germans were astounding to me. They worked diligently, they went out of their way to help others, and were bright and current enough to engage about anything. Even better, they ask questions beyond "when's this period over, i need to use my cell phone." 1st generation (stateside) Latino's were wonderful to have in class, 2nd and 3rd generation were (darkened) white trash, just like the rest of them.
Something about that "American Dream," once it's realized everyone assumes the work is over. So sad.