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Gunnar
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Maybe a little late in this thread, but since I noticed
recent posters, I join in.
Believe it or not, my (dominican) wife "strongly prefers" I
don't go "topless" normally! Furthermore, it doesn't seem
to have any sexual notions at all, since it is perfectly
alright when it's cloudy. Just a care for my well-beeing in
the strong sun! Please understand that most dominicans have
this feeling that the sun is dangerous, and you have to
cover up to protect yourself. There's ALSO a "public sexual
inhibition" to avoid explicit sex outside the bedroom.
Unfortunately, the situation also includes quite some
"mumble-jumble" towards the young ones, there are simply too
many 14-15 year old mothers, and too few well educated parents
to deal logically with it. The result: an "anti-sex" hysteria
out of proportion. It is not unusual that parents force
their teenage daughters to a medical exam for "virginity",
just for beeing late home at night!
It takes a little more than just an "expertise education"
to deal with such, if it even should be "dealt" with.
As a man, I can't possibly imagine what it would feel like to
be forced into a gyneacology chair and being "examined" against
my will. I can just pray that noone I know will ever aquire that
"knowledge".
About the psychology:
At the age of 11, my (step)son got interested in toy-guns,
aquired a few (without my consent, but with his own earned
money), and was running around pointing them at anyone.
I bought a real gun, we built a shooting range together in the
basement, and I carefully taught him the dangers, and to never,
never, never, ever point it towards any living thing.
A few years later I/we used a similar manner to show him what
I and "mom" were doing to show each other love and respect
nighttime.
He's now 19 years, pacifist, and eager to please, rather
than molest his girlfriend.
"Sex and violence revisited..."
/Gunnar
recent posters, I join in.
Believe it or not, my (dominican) wife "strongly prefers" I
don't go "topless" normally! Furthermore, it doesn't seem
to have any sexual notions at all, since it is perfectly
alright when it's cloudy. Just a care for my well-beeing in
the strong sun! Please understand that most dominicans have
this feeling that the sun is dangerous, and you have to
cover up to protect yourself. There's ALSO a "public sexual
inhibition" to avoid explicit sex outside the bedroom.
Unfortunately, the situation also includes quite some
"mumble-jumble" towards the young ones, there are simply too
many 14-15 year old mothers, and too few well educated parents
to deal logically with it. The result: an "anti-sex" hysteria
out of proportion. It is not unusual that parents force
their teenage daughters to a medical exam for "virginity",
just for beeing late home at night!
It takes a little more than just an "expertise education"
to deal with such, if it even should be "dealt" with.
As a man, I can't possibly imagine what it would feel like to
be forced into a gyneacology chair and being "examined" against
my will. I can just pray that noone I know will ever aquire that
"knowledge".
About the psychology:
At the age of 11, my (step)son got interested in toy-guns,
aquired a few (without my consent, but with his own earned
money), and was running around pointing them at anyone.
I bought a real gun, we built a shooting range together in the
basement, and I carefully taught him the dangers, and to never,
never, never, ever point it towards any living thing.
A few years later I/we used a similar manner to show him what
I and "mom" were doing to show each other love and respect
nighttime.
He's now 19 years, pacifist, and eager to please, rather
than molest his girlfriend.
"Sex and violence revisited..."
/Gunnar
