I think that they may get upset, this is my second time going to the precinct to find out why they keep coming to my house.
SHALENA
Exactly my point. As long they have not clearly threatened you, or come onto you or your property physically, I'd leave them some slack.
I am not saying they're just some good ol' boys having fun with you, but I'd treat them like they were. Show them you are taking it with a touch humor...
Don't show so much fear, especially to the ones you seem to grow somewhat weary of. Look at how Dominicanas handle men, when they don't want them... they brew up an intricate mix of pride and some humor... let them boys be the monkeys they want to play.
But always alert.
Maybe a better way to "complain" would be to visit the precinct the next day after such an "event" and personally thank the "yo soy el jefe aqui" with a warm hand shake for the attention dedicated to you and leave again proudly. That will tell him that his boys have been "at it again" without putting him into a corner you don't have the weight to hold him in. And he'll be able to play "jefe" and feel flattered and important. At the end of all days, it's him you want on your side.
Walk softly but carry a big stick... someone once said.
... J-D.
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