Here are 2 examples of 2 different types of Dominicans: one that expats / tourists meet and the other they will never meet (unfortunately).
Girl #1 I met in a disco who was a promoter for a rum company. She was beautiful and very elegant looking, therefore she was hired to model for the rum. I talked to her and immediately it was clear that she was a very nice person. I took her number and called her the next day. She gave me directions to meet her in her mom's place where she would leave her little son in order to go out with me. First of all she gives me totally wrong directions to get to her house is some ghetto. I was totally lost and upset. Then I put her on the phone with a taxi driver who then explained to me how to get to her home. I go there, of course in bad mood. She comes dressed up sexy. We drive away to a place to have some drinks and get a bite. She immediately starts to tell me how she is looking for a good guy to save her from her miserable life. Turns out she is only 18 yrs old (she looked around 25) and already has a baby who is 3 yrs old (yikexxx). The guy she had the baby with was a loser from the barrio and had left her ever since she was pregnant. She lives alone now in a little room somewhere and works as model for beer / rum companies to make ends meet. WOW, so here we have a little slut who was sleeping with guys when she was like 13 or 14 yrs old? She is 18 and already lives alone?
Then she talks about how tough the life is for her, she needs a guy to support her and her son. She can be a wonderful wife and she will satisfy her man in anyway. Then she tells me she is in dire need for money to pay her rent and buy clothes for her kid. But she never asks for money at this moment, only telling me about her needs in life. Then she wants to go to a fancy restaurant to wine and dine. At this moment I was already fed up with her. All the fantasies I had in my mind were already faded. I was already sorry to meet her. Instead of taking her to a fancy restaurant, I took her to a taco joint. She made faces when she realized they didn't have bailey's. She was forced to drink beer. Even with beer that she claimed she didn't like, she drank like 10 glasses. I had to stop her eventually. Then she claimed she was not hungry and didn't eat that type of food, tacos and sandwiches. Oh, i didn't know she ate shrimps everyday in her ghetto room.
So we go out for a drive and spent the rest of the night doing other things. Later when I was about to take her home, she mentioned that she was hungry now. She will only eat salad. Now folks, its 12am, shops and everything closed and we are in a weeknight. Where the hell I will buy her a salad at this time of the night? she insisted that she will only eat salad because she doesn't eat yuca and other dominican food. Some BS because I know for fact she is a type who eats yuca, boiled babanas and eggs everyday. now she has to act like a princess. Finally she agreed to eat ham & cheese sandwich in the restaurant of 24 hrs grocery store (central). She ordered a sandwich which is of diet (after drinking 10 glasses of beer). the sandwich has to be on whole wheat bread but loaded with melted cheese. yeah, some diet sandwich. Then she asked for carrot juice. At this time I simply lost my head and told her to drink orange juice because we are not in some restaurant in NY where they would serve her carrot juice. there is no god damn carrot juice anywhere in santiago at that time of the night. She sensed my frustrations with her and simply ate the food. I took her home to her mom's house to pick up her baby. While she was upstairs in the apartment, i was worried for my life as strange characters went walked by to check me out. I am sure they were thinking of robbing me. She comes and we go to her apartment. Man o man, she lived in a dangerous barrio, dark narrow curvy streets and no living soul anywhere. On the way back, I got lost.
To fast forward the story, I don't pick up her calls anymore. she is nothing but trouble. I am sure she was going to ask me for money on the next date.
Now girl#2:
I met her on internet. She turned out to be a very nice girl too but totally 180 degrees apart from girl#1. She was from a rich background. 24 yrs old studying medicine. She is slim, hard bodied girl who also knows how to dress elegantly. She is calm and of relaxed personality. She had thick bodied hair, which also smelled like an angel. She was just an elegant girl who looked premium quality. She came to santiago on her own, brought her latest laptop duo core Pentium (brand new). She was very pleasant and very sweet in nature. We had spent 2 months talking online and on the phone so we knew each other quite well. She went where I took her, she ate what I gave her. In fact she didn't even eat much of anything, she was not a drinker. maybe she shared a beer with me (like 4 sips). When I went to work, she cleaned my house and even took out my garbage, washed my plates in sink and folded my laundry. Mind you, this girl lives on a high rise on melecon in santo domingo, has 2 maids in her luxury apartment. the apartment itself looks as clean as a museum, furnished with expensive furniture. This girl had everything anyone could ask for in life, yet she was not troublesome or arrogant as many people think the rich people are in DR. This girl is a pleasure to be around with. I see her every 2 weeks in santiago. I don't have to spend any money on her and don't have to worry about a thing. She is happy in her own condition. When i work, she does her homework or reads a novel at home.
Now tell me, why would I go after some desperate chopa from a barrio who has a bag full of problems with my name written all over it when I can get decent educated girls like #2 who is nothing but a pleasure to be with?
AZB
