But why is it so hard to adopt on this country!! We are slightly under 30, both of us have great careers. And have been told we must be married at least 5 years among other requirements
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Why do the Dominican people have one of the highest amount of single -mother families
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i hope you really dont believe that man. that is buying the whole boat, hook, line and sinker. have you ever spoken to these women when they get older and ask them how they feel about that "you were made so you can take care of your mom when she gets old"? I know several women STUCK in that caregiver situation and the 1st thing they want is out, regardless of who is going to care for "dear old mom".
additionally since most NONE of these women think long term they all presume they will retain whatever level of attractiveness they have at present, even as almost NONE of them work, exercise or eat right. Alot of these women think they can step back in the game at 38 where they stepped out at 18 AT THE SAME PLACE and desirability.
You are abdicating the women from the responsibility of procreating with said "bums". If the man was a bum when you met, when you laid down with, when you bore his children then what does this make you? A bum-ette. You are the company you keep. If you hang out with f'tards then you are one also(WHICH is why I d never hang out with half of you guys, personally. That is too dangerous).
Whatever woman told you that is priming you for a new role of Cap'n SavaHo. Now if you are content being a Cap'n Save'm all I want you to do is realize all the freaky deaky gangster sexual sht she did with the "irresponsible man who gave her all those children y ahora ella no tiene nada ni un centavo ni chabo por pamper ni leche.", YOU wont be getting that freaky deaky sex. You are going to get lazy ingrateful sex.
Those women f'd those guys because they were horny and the guys kept coming around because it was free sex. Instant gratification. No one is building a relationship here, just scratching a carnal itch. If she knew he was reckless and irresponsible then why would she complain that he isnt contributing when she knew he was lame when she met him? Only morons would believe that having the man's baby would keep the man, when it hasnt worked for ANYONE here ever.
The men nut in the women because it proves their manliness, their virility, their machismo. El es MAS macho porque el tiene 20 hijos con 17 mujeres. This used to be the scene in Puerto Rico also before the US government sold the women sterilization(as a miscegenation control campaign) and onerous child support laws.
There are more single mothers in the USA, Canada, and Europe "Per Capita" than in the DR!!!!
American women abort more of their unborn children too, as do Canadians & Europeans!!!!
Dominican women are the best mothers in te WORLD!
ps, chips computer is down, he asked me to make this post for him!!!!!
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American women abort more of their unborn children too, as do Canadians & Europeans!!!!
Dominican women are the best mothers in te WORLD!
ps, chips computer is down, he asked me to make this post for him!!!!!
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Back to uniquenlovely not understanding why adoption is so difficult.
Anything invilving kids is difficult, well actually anything at all is usually more difficult than you would think. But asking for 5 years ofmarriage seems pretty reasonable doesnt it?
I presume they require other values?
Anything invilving kids is difficult, well actually anything at all is usually more difficult than you would think. But asking for 5 years ofmarriage seems pretty reasonable doesnt it?
I presume they require other values?
that is true. Hispanics in the USA have the highest rate of teen pregnancy. Together with non Hispanic Blacks, they account for 57% of all teen pregnancies About Teen Pregnancy | Teen Pregnancy | Reproductive Health | CDC
You keep telling posters that what they think and people around them think is not true. Even if you don't know them. Like when you tried to tell a former Canadian woman what Canadian women thought about a specific subject. Funny that you kept arguing on it. You're just guessing!
True! But I was also referring to volunteers who are usually pretty girls in their twenties. Many of them with a good education and still fall for local men.
yes, and some women just want to have a beautiful baby without any further interference from or issues with the daddy... And we can all agree that Dominicans make beautiful babies...
The days of women being "seducciti e abandonnati" sort of ended with the availability of birth control. The usual situation is that typically each woman will have two, three or four maridos, and the men have two three or four esposas. Children are not seen as a particular barrier to taking on another mate. This does not seem to apply so much to the small wealthy class, but it certainly applies to the average Dominicans.
A single Dominican woman with kids "stock" tends to drop, compared to single Dominican females without children, and clearly manifests itself in the greatly widened acceptable age gap (with men they choose to date).... Possibly the DR female's self esteem drops proportionately to the number of kids produced, allowing for dude old enough to be called her abuelo (instead of papi), to have a shot?
Rubbish do they. Not on any possibly scale ale scale. Very few who are not desperadoes fall for the actual desperadoes themselfs. And volunteers are bound by contract to be at least 40 overweight, so they may be rellitubby attractive, but as your average person glances around the room.
There is less sexual chemistry i a room of goofed off volunteers than ...............
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I dont know what Canadian woman you are talking about. But your 4th paragraph was fiction. If the men are so irresponsible WHOSE family is going to take the pregnant girl in? And if he has more than one child then how many girls are his family suposed to take in? AND how come you never see these girls when they get kicked out and have no where to go? You dont see any women with children living in the woods like Sasquatches, ever. If you do see living in the forest they are usually Haitians waiting on opportunity.
Even more, the family of the girl would get greater shame abandoning her and their grandchild than they would by acknowledging she got pregnant out of wedlock. The only people who claim to do that are those putting on airs and trying to be "Fulanos". Men claiming their daughters are virtuous and women saying that their daughters will marry highly influential and important people. Phonies.
The women used that "They are going to kick me out" jazz to sell marriage to the "upstanding, honorable, morally bound" man. And finally those tricks are used by fathers to keep their daughters in line when they are teens. NO one cares what a 33 year old woman does. No one cares what a 43 year old woman does...AND THEY ARE STILL FERTILE(because you know, most Dominicans think women hit menopause at 30 and any woman older than that is unable to have children). A woman told me 3 weeks ago "I m not 15, I am 34. I am VERY OLD."
I'm talking about Harleysrock, Who you wanted to convince that you knew better than him what his female Canadian friends thought about a topic. And you just wouldn?t let it go.
You need to read my post again. I commented in the past that girls who got pregnant were sometimes kicked out of the house but not anymore, which is true. And that one of the reasons that there are more single mothers is that families are more accepting of this. Girls also got kicked ouf of school.
I never spoke about over 30 women being kicked out of their homes or forced to be married. I spoke about girls. Plus, if you didn?t know this, then I question everything else you say. I?m not buying whatever you say either.
That's weird. It seems that you can?t read.
And how come your ONE friend's opinion is always be the truth, but someone else?s Dominican friend is false. You are being silly! Stop insisting that you know more than everyone else. You don?t!
Rubish! The DR gets lots of lots of young volunteers from NGO/exchange/volunteers programs . Saying that volunteers are fat and over 40 only shows you know nothing what you're talking about. Trashing women in general seems to make you feel better about yourself.
Aren?t you a suck puppet anyway?
I no speaki u lanchu-aj. I dont recall no Canadian conversations.
AND I read what you wrote and it was false. Name the time when what you wrote was true. WhAt era? What years? When in the past precisely?
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That would be the Gorda gringas. I've rarely seen a good looking gringa with a Dominican male. Just sayin. The Gorda blanca isn't getting any at home....
Single mothers in DR is a problem that's not going away anytime soon, sad but true.
Lastly it doesn't matter what part of the world u r from, if you don't have a strong parental figure in the house showing & stating right from wrong any kid is doomed. Add in a lack of education and ur fcuked.
My .02 I could be wrong, but me tinks a few century of evidence proves this.
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The idea of a "perfect family" varies by both geography and culture. In the US, the ideal is two college-educated parents in their mid 20's that will raise the kid mostly by themselves, with perhaps some help from the grandparents or Conchita, la nana.
The concept in the DR certainly varies by social class, but it is different. Grandparents have been the principle caregivers to children pretty much since we came down from the trees and out of the caves. The American attitude of a perfect family is based on gender equality and maximum productivity in the workplace. I do not think that is the major idea in the RD
Social customs usually have a practical side that those who follow them do not always realize. Why does Ken need to give Barbie an engagement ring of one caret or more equal to three months' salary? To prove that he has either (1) lots of disposable income or (2) credit to p?ss away on impractictical items that will keep the economy growing. Basically, it is the same logic that causes the Masai warrior to pay four head of cattle to the father in law.
The concept in the DR certainly varies by social class, but it is different. Grandparents have been the principle caregivers to children pretty much since we came down from the trees and out of the caves. The American attitude of a perfect family is based on gender equality and maximum productivity in the workplace. I do not think that is the major idea in the RD
Social customs usually have a practical side that those who follow them do not always realize. Why does Ken need to give Barbie an engagement ring of one caret or more equal to three months' salary? To prove that he has either (1) lots of disposable income or (2) credit to p?ss away on impractictical items that will keep the economy growing. Basically, it is the same logic that causes the Masai warrior to pay four head of cattle to the father in law.
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